i would say, dont generalize. there's always those loose ones and those uptight prim ones... in every culture. (im generalizing arent i?) for me, maybe... probably if i find someone i like enough.
honestly in my opinion 90% of people have sex before marriage. You always see it on television, people are getting more open and much more comfortable getting a long with others. And honestly to get to the bottom of this, why should parents ever be a factor of what you do? Im pretty sure getting a kid when ur not financially stable is not very smart, so don;t be stupid? At the end as long as ur future partner does not mind, why should it be a matter? Sex is too common, its just another way of people expressing/enjoying themselves.
The non asian girls tends to be more open about ex before marriage. I guess their family dont care. It would be nice to be a virgin after marriage. but never know, the world changess
Well, as long as two consenting adult make their choice and are comfortable with it what the outcome may be, it should be ok.
I'm also from the netherlands but none of my friends and me all have sex before mariage... it was just waiting for the right time... And believe me... most people in the netherlands arn't virgin anymore.. How old are you? The dutch people are mostly a couple year quicker than the most chinese
With the newer gen, I don' t think it is an issue at all. I think most of my friends have sex with their bf/gf before marriage.
Having sex before marriage will not be a problem your family acceptance allows it ... mine, preferable no....
Having sex before marriage is very common nowadays. It's almost mandatory if they like each other. Just because they had sex it does not mean they will get married. They might split up for whatever reasons. Of course they will get married if they love each other.
I had sex before marriage, over here it's normal unless your are hardcore religous! Some people it may be different as they are bought up differently but at the end of the day it's down to the individuals but you cant put pressure on them.
sex before marriage is very common in todays world although there are people who treasure it and do it when they get married. but you can cant put pressure onto people in doing it ~ peer pressure
Well normally all parents would kinda freak out once they find out their children are having sex. I don't think the girls don't go any further because they're Chinese, but it probably has to do with how strict their family is. Here in the U.S. some families are more open although they would prefer that their children wait till marriage, they'll still accept their choice. For my parents it was you can do whatever you want, but just don't get pregnant.
well that have never happen to me, I have Asian g/fs they never push me off when I want to have sex with them. if the girls love u enough they will give u everything they got. that is what I think........
i think not having sex before getting married is like a protection mechanism for most. If you have emotional and physical ties with someone... it more heart breaking when you break up... at least from the female angle... it's like you got used...
i do agree chinese are more conservative.. it's the mindset.. but i do observe there are more n more chinese become more open.. if individual doesnt mind the 'act' y not.. but if u do mind..jus stick with it.. cos it's subjective.. cheers..
