well sex before marriage in the ancient times would be a death sentence in most of china... but nowa days with the western culture... pretty much anything goes... i would be very miserable if every girl believes in marriage before sex... im sure everyone would be too guys and girls
I guess it depends on how much you love your partner. Nowadays, it feels like sex is the thing that guys think about. I think I prefer marriage before sex. Cuz it would be sad if the guy goes with you for sex and then leaves you after they had you.
Not a fan of the one night stand? Sex is definitely the main thing that most guys think about, but its nothing new. Its been genetically programmed into us for thousands of years. The urge to procreate is the most powerful instinct in any animal. Just look at the black widow spider. During or after copulation, the female spider will always eat the male. But the male spider has sex with her anyway.
No sex = no baby = you wont around .. Just kidding ...but what the important thing is either the guy really love her or not right.. if yes the gal also willingly give to him although not first time wakakakaaa
Sex should be meaningful, should be with someone you least know and like.. so I think it's alright to have sex before marriage as long as you know what you're getting into and won't have deep regret afterward.
i think it have become something very common in a relationship. But parents mostly dont allow it. But there are still some that will really keep their virginity until they are married. But still, all these still depends for each individual.
But what do guys think about sex before marriage? Do they prefer to know what the chemistry is like before marriage, or do they prefer those who are virgins? It's a really confusing issue for me, so confusing in fact, I don't even know how to express what I want to ask...-huh? Granted, traditional families definitely still expect virgin brides, especially of their daughters. For me, I don't know what to think. Of course, the first time is very important, but how would one know when that time has come to give it up? It's just seems so much easier to wait until marriage, but at the same time it also seems easier to give in. Once that first time is lost, there is no more first time... The devil and the angel on my shoulders are arguing with each other, but the problem is I do not know which one is which. -devil:angel:
In America. so many asians done it before marriage. It's not a big thing here and I don't think our parents expects us to wait til marriage. If a girl wants to wait, you should respect that and if the love is there, it will eventually happen. Looking back, most of our parents waited til after marriage and their marriage is still there. Where as now a days, everybody gets married and then divorced...I think marriage is now completely different also. People get married for the wrong reasons with the wrong person. If that's the case, what's the significance of marriage and why should you wait?
i dont think there's anything wrong with sex before marriage. As we all know, guys are horny and i am pretty 99% of girls are too. As long as both parties are okay with it, then i think its fine to have sex before marriage. I agree with the crappy sex. I am pretty sure couples will get divorced cause of bad sex, i think you can improve, but still, what if the girl's very conservative and isnt willing to improve, then you are going to stuck with crappy sex for the rest of your life. Therefore, test first=]
well it happens but older generations prefer not to think abt/talk abt it. I live with my gf and i'm sure my mum strongly suspects that we regularly sleep together but the day my mum is sure of this beyond reasonable doubt is the day she'll freak out
