Having sex before marriage

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Raymond_Cheung, Feb 13, 2008.

  1. so you never gonna marry anyone DL? :p
     
  2. distrikt

    distrikt Active Member

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    my gf's family is strict too...
    they dont allow her to have sex before marriage

    :( for me
     
  3. grandvizor

    grandvizor Member

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    sex before marriage and sex after marriage, no different, both are the same sex. marriage is only a commitment to live together as long as we both shall live.
     
  4. Eloi

    Eloi Member

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    I am fine with late stage relationship to have sex before marriage but totally against things like 1 week after dating and start humping like rabbits =X.
     
  5. xiaozhuzhu

    xiaozhuzhu Active Member

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    I think it depends on the committment level and the feeling at that point in time.
     
  6. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    LOL where i live sex is so normal... im chinese and i no a lot of ppl in china or sex is really easy and normal to...
     
  7. ZzDarkzZ

    ZzDarkzZ Member

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    o and girls slept with fastest can be with in a few hours... and the longest was maybe a week or 2 (only slept with chinese girls)
     
  8. ZzDarkzZ

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    asian or not asain... to me its normal... and i dont no anyone that haven't had sex before marriage.. atleast ppl around me lol
     
  9. Tish-shoo

    Tish-shoo Member

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    Lol, my parents are completely against it. They're even against dating during high school.
     
  10. erict1628

    erict1628 Member

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    There's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. It's normal. In fact, I think it's a good idea to have sex before marriage. At least, you'll know if your partner is right for you. It's better to find that out before signing a piece of contract.
     
  11. amy

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    just whenever your ready then go for it because you can not have sex when both of u aRE not ready right?
     
  12. in the west a week is a long waiting time, usually 20+ hours and some alcohol.
     
  13. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    i don't think waiting is a bad thing. i think its very classy too. the most important thing is that the time is right. it should just naturally happen
     
  14. dereksiu_waterloo

    dereksiu_waterloo Active Member

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    no sex before marriage
     
  15. eternity_1314

    eternity_1314 Active Member

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    My parents are Chinese and they believe in sex AFTER marriage. I was like that too growing up. I wanna to save if for my husband but it all changed after my first and current boyfriend. It really depends on the person and the type of culture that they grew up in.
     
  16. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol so what, u dont get married, u dont have sex pfffft, lol that so bullshit, its called Feel ,
    Sex can be like Anytime Anywhere , having sex after marriage is a commitment that most people will not follow
     
  17. EvilTofu

    EvilTofu 吃|✿|0(。◕‿◕。)0|✿|吃

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    If a girl sleeps with you in a matter of a week or so after you had dated, I think she's easy. SEX before marriage is too common these days. But girls really need to give it some time before you sleep with a man, you don't want him to think you're easy to get, they'll treat you so differently once you give it up too soon.
     
  18. jtommy87

    jtommy87 Well-Known Member

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    I think in today society having sex before marriage is very common, I don't think you can find much girl out there not a virgin !
     
  19. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    yes i agree sex before marriage is very common these days. but tbh it doesn't rele bother me too much, it's about finding the right person. u don't eliminate people if there aren't a virgin.
     
  20. envizion

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    i believe sex before marriage will only become more and more common. there has been many radical changes to society and culture within the last few decades. the younger generation will adapt to the new ideals and pass it on to the future generations. whereas the older generation will often stick to the ideals they were taught growing up. often the cause of conflicts between asian parents and kids these days.