Having sex before marriage

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Raymond_Cheung, Feb 13, 2008.

  1. clevergurl55

    clevergurl55 Well-Known Member

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    if you use birth control like condoms then you won't stds or pregnant ;) and I'm sorry, but since when was the bible on fax from heaven? please provide better reasoning then " the bible says so....thus I will not do that"
     
  2. jiavis

    jiavis Member

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    what is democracy if you cant do what you want? I dont see anything wrong with it
     
  3. wysandman

    wysandman Well-Known Member

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    If you think you old enough to make that decision go for it, it's your life....but if some bad happens (pregnancy) you have to deal with it yourself.
     
  4. vshiva

    vshiva Member

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    chinese people dont really like sex before marriage, on the other hand western culture used to that sex before marriage culture
     
  5. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    Lots of girls say "no sex before marriage". I only have to say BS! Girls will ask for it if the guy has game.
     
  6. Clemzstar

    Clemzstar Member

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    To be honest, i havent had any friends or any asian friends that still a virgin, most lost it earlier than i do and i lost it on my 19th which is consider pretty LATE
     
  7. woeijing83

    woeijing83 Active Member

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    No agree but sometimes u can't hold ur breath when u r in that relationship...u just want it. ...somehow
     
  8. themvp

    themvp Well-Known Member

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    I had sex with some blond chick when I was a freshman in high school.
     
  9. pinkie

    pinkie Member

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    i dun agree in sex before marriage...i'm a chinese and probably this is my culture..but to me, guys are only after sex. Once they got you, they wil just leave u.
     
  10. themvp

    themvp Well-Known Member

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    That's not true at all, but there are a few exceptions.
    First, if you are ugly then he will definitely dump you after sex but hey you had fun too and you know it's hard for you to get laid so it's even.
    Second, if you're hot but conceited then he'll have sex with you again and again then finally can't stand your ass any longer and dump you in front of his friends.
    Finally, if you're annoying or even your parents are annoying then you know your ass is gonna get dumped cause no one can stand that sh!t. Otherwise you're fine :)
     
  11. qtmike

    qtmike Member

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    Well it depends, some people like to wait till they are married but others think differ like me for example.gfight1
     
  12. i think it is very normal nowadays esp when we are so modern and technology is booming now
    i see a lot of people living together and stuff so it is okay

    parents are very supportive now so it is all good. once u got the yes from them you will have a sign of relief but watch out for unexpected things popping out. hehehe ho jeh!
     
  13. download-888

    download-888 Well-Known Member

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    sex before marriage is no big deal, as long as you feel comfortable, trust that person and have safe sex then that's fine.
     
  14. realazyjai

    realazyjai Well-Known Member

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    well as long as both are comfortable, i believe sex before marriage is fine.

    Keeping in mind the world is evolving, couples use to marry when they're say ... 18... 20... ? compared to these days ? i don't want to be a 30 year old virgin ...
     
  15. itchyjayy

    itchyjayy New Member

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    sex does not = marriage, and vice-versa
     
  16. Shiyao

    Shiyao Member

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    No problem with sex before marriage. It's especially reasonable for the ones who don't want to wed. What? Do you expect them to remain a virgin for life because of that choice? I highly doubt it.
     
  17. WeakNiZ

    WeakNiZ Well-Known Member

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    if guys do it, peoples just gona say hes a pimp, if a girl do it, they are gona call her a slut, ~sigh Luckily i'm a guy
     
  18. renegade

    renegade Member

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    Gee... is society still so uptight about premarital sex?
     
  19. mick87

    mick87 Active Member

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    having sex b4 marriage is not a big big problem... the worst thing is the consequences.
    if u wanna have sex, go buy condom.... better have a safe sex.
     
  20. heyyitsalana

    heyyitsalana Member

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    i think it's totally normal but then again not all people are openminded