It has nothing to do with race - people only say that because sometimes they don't like behavior of a culture.
ask her out lol, i don't think the boundary is too much among viets and chinese, the thickness of that boundary depends upon where you live i guess lol. well but i'm mixed so no trouble for me lol.
The most important thing is where are you living now? Vietnam, China or oversea? If both of you are in oversea now so that is ok. Every people live outside their native country seems to be more open to make friends with foreigners. I'm a Vietnamese girl so I dunt know what will happen if both of you are living in China. In the case that you are living in Vietnam, I think... it cant be a problem if you want to ask her out since you and her are already good friends. The well-prepared background of feelings and truth are very important as making friends with foreigners. good luck guys
hmm best thing i guess you could do is ask her out, but if you feel that it will mess up your friendship with her than i recommend not asking until you feel confident enough
haha my moms chinese my dads viet no problem there so i reckon u shud jus take the risk ^___^ i like beiing halfy hehe even tho i dont belong very well haha
What chinese dialect do you speak? Canto or mand? Because i think that a lot of vietnamese is similar to cantonese, so if you're canto, i think you might have a better shot.
IS this post serious? go for whoever you want. if you asking these kinda question here you probably don't have enough game to step to her anyways or it show you're a big QQ which i don't think she gonna be turned on by
i would say ask her out... it's better to have tried than never knowing what would've/could've happened. i think the only problem with interacial relationship is that the parents may disapprove. i'm lucky that i'm chinese and viet. =) my parents don't have a problem with either race.
I think its fine if u guyz are compatable... y does it seem so hard? i mean...i had a korean guy ask me out...he doesnt seem too mind the race and language barrier...and u two watch TVB series which means that she can some what understand a bit of chiense rite? or is it the english subs?
In todays day and age different cultures don't mean much anymore and given that he hasn't replied for ages, you would hope he's had a shot by now
um..try talk to her about ur feelings or apprehensions about the whole chinese/viet thing...also if both dont mind n has feelings for each other then i say go for it... in the end it will be you 2 thats going out not other pple... hope it helps and good luck... if it makes u feel better, i have a friend who's chinese and he's going out with a viet girl, they're happy and their parents dont mind so its all good...=)
i don't think there is that kind of barrior at one time vietnamese were acutallly chinese... but we always had a good relationship with the viets
hell with society and its rivalries XD if u like her and she feels comfortable around you, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR !?!?!? I bet she's probably waiting for you XD
If both you and the girl feels the same way, then by all means, dont let something like ethnicity get to you. However, MAKE SURE that the girl do feel the same. If not, you might lose a friend.
awwwwwwwwwww... dann's in luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuve~~~ -lol how cute... anyway if these girls r interested in either of u then u guys should pick up some sort of vibes... n i don't think nationaltity should b a problem unless ur parents r really really against it like Romeo n Juliet... n it really depends on wot kinda future ur looking for... if u guys r thinking abt marriage n kids well don't u think it's a lil way too early for that?? but if ur referring ur "future" as having a relationship then u won't get it unless u work for it!! good luck!!
nationality should never be a problem. don't ask her out; she should be the one to do so. that way, you will know that she is really into you and want to be with you in the future. as for you to make her say it, use physical contact. i.e. put your arm around her shoulder, tickle her, poke her, hold hands, etc. remember, YOU ARE the catch!
