Help! [How to get over someone]

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by schung23, Dec 29, 2007.

  1. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    How much you paying me then?

    Reno, you the one whos a gigolo, stop denying it and saying im one..:D
     
  2. nutrilift

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    You can't.
    Don't use drug etc.
    don't ever think about sleeping with other women ( supposing you are a man)
    because you would think about her, and think about lot of comparisons between her and the other girls.

    Just wait... and let the time tell you that she was fine, but you and her is just.. impossible :D
    yeah man, fatality :D
    life is tough
     
  3. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    Dawns right ya know, thats the QUICKEST way of moving on, seriously though, do NOT: do drugs, drown in alcohol, sleep around

    One its degrading yourself, two that doesnt help you forget; well not permanently anyway, only temporarily, three you'll just become worse and if you are hoping for chances of EVER getting back with them, trust me that is not the right road to go down if you ever want anything good to happen.

    Just get on your feet, live your life and dont wallow in self pity, I been there, its hard, but I had friends help me, make me laugh, I had PA ppl cheering me up and giving me advice, and in the end, you got your life ahead of you, plenty of fishes in the sea.

    x
     
  4. alnk

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    hm....have you seen the thread i started? _ _"""""""""""
     
  5. Candyshots

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    Haha, I thought he was a rookie... or a really bad duck =P hahaa


    I've to examine you first and see what level you're in =P


    Obviously not...
     
  6. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    i can't believe u haven't seen the thread. its extremely recent. he is basically in the same position. just read the thread and u will find out.

    as for getting over just relax and chill. think of all the bad habits that she has and just go and think of all the things u no longer need to worry about. ur now free and single.
     
  7. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    RE: Candyshots
    xDDD
    hahahahha
    well yea...
     
  8. Candyshots

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    Haha, haven't been here for... like ½ year... =P But thx! =)
     
  9. alnk

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    1/2 a yr...same here xPP
     
  10. Candyshots

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    What have you been doing during the time then?
     
  11. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    during that time i was with my X
    and when i got dumped i had exams straight away then i got depressed and spammed ps2 games.
    and avoided the girls who were trying to go for me.
    now i'm back on the net ^^
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Screw that, dont wanna be your duck. You can be my chicken instead. -tongue2
     
  13. Candyshots

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    This won't work. We're both demanders. Oki, lets split. You take BB and I Reno. They are "yong ji at" =P
     
  14. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    this is way off topic.
    ducks and chickens arent good to help u uget over ur X xD
     
  15. Candyshots

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    JUST LET GO!!! You know what? You should really go to some developing countries and see what real life is!
    Not whining about something like a girl that treats you like shit! You're so young and will meet a lot of ppl. Just don't waste your time for something stupid. Go and work as a volunteer as me =)
     
  16. alnk

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    aiyo~! easier said than done!
     
  17. Candyshots

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    That's just because you don't even considering about pass on. Don't be so stubborn and "jap juk". You should know that NOBODY can help you than yourself. You are the one who decide your way.
     
  18. alnk

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    yosh~! that's so true xP
    btw...is it me? friends and i pronounce what u wrote as "jap juk" as "jup jerk"
    we have different ways of putting down canto pinyin.
    mine is just put it down as u hear it xP
    i have considered abt passin it on.
    but think about this.
    you have relel distinct clear memory. which holds significance in ur life.
    how the hell do you force urself to forget it?
     
  19. Candyshots

    Candyshots Well-Known Member

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    jup; pick (like pick something up)
    juk; on (like the light's on)

    hahaa, or something like that...

    No one's telling you to forget. You can't or shouldn't forget anything at all. That's your life and everything that's happening to you will be your experience. Just accept that she's not the one. Love should be simple and not forcing and making she wants you back again. If she's happy with the other guy then you should let her go.
     
  20. alnk

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    i did let her go!!
    i just want her back TT_______TT
    or maib not anymore xD