But that's not a good surprise. Don't salvage a relationship by attempting to bring it to the next level. That's just not smart. You want your spouse to be with you through thick and thin right? If you two can't resolve something small like this easily, then I don't want to imagine what it will be like when REAL trouble brews up.
Dun Dun DUN!!! especially if your havin' doubts about whether she's the same girl you fell in love with...
That's crazy talk! If you're posting on here asking for advice...I don't think popping the cherry is the right thing to do! You'll just end up divorcing in a year! Be mean to her for a bit and see if she dumps you...because you sound way too whipped...