Yes, if she doesn't get the signal, then explaining to her nicely is the way to go. If she still bothers you, then you should ignore.
^ once you explain you can't go back, if she can't take the nice explaining, then its bitch smackin' time lol, or she'll just stalk you...
shit, I just thought of something... I'm old and I don't know if I should let this girl go. Cuz what if I won't find another girl? and if I don't find another girl, then I'll regret so much. >_< my head hurts.
I duno, I think i need to have a drink. Stress and all that is not good for me. somebody called me and said that I was old and that maybe I should work it out. You see, I'm almost 30 and still single.... and they do bring up a pretty good point.
omg plz do NOT even consider staying with this girl because of that. first off, the difference between being friends with someone and being in a relationship with them is the sexual attraction. judging by what u wrote about her, u have none for her. secondly, u went into this relationship for the WRONG reason. u also have to realize that being in a relationship where u get no satisfaction (not just talking physically here) will feel the same as being miserably single. ur not even in a relationship with her now and u already can't stand her. plus, if u let her leech along then ur really gonna have problems getting rid of her.
If you don't like this girl, then let her go. Finding another girl is not hard, but finding the right girl is a bit difficult.
yea -_- I thought about it again, you are all right. I will try to find someone else cuz she isn't my type and that desperation is a HUGE turnoff.
I totally agree with lee-lee on this one! Don't stay in this "relationship" just because you want a relationship. You'll find the right person, it just takes some time.
Lol...so the moral of the story is don start a relationship just because you are desperate it is very troublesome for both you and the girl.....If you find her chubby honey why start it at the first thing if you already don like her for that -mellow I guess the best thing to do is just confront her and make it less painful for both you and her... Kekekeke.....the gay thing i thought they are only used in tv dramas i don know that they are used in real world too....-sweat But since our fren here is pretty desperate no offense madeinchina I guess wateva is worth a try..
Ihhh I can see your desperation but come on you are a guy for man time is unlimited even at 80 if you have the cash i am very sure you could find a grave digger -whistle so don worry too much.....So, just take your time and do not choose the wrong girl and find out after a few years later you don like her...Technically, you are wasting both your own time and the girl's time....-^_^
^ i think you mean gold digger, but you said grave digger, ha............gonna make the op more stressed out now lols
To counter what lee-lee says, When she asks why you haven't been returning her calls and ignoring her, tell her, "I am not into chubby girls". -evil
Lol...I meant a grave digger cause at 80 he is on his way to grave so technically from where i am they call it grave digger and honey grave and gold is very different from each other so I know the difference -innocent2
^ ok i get ya now lol, like what anna nicole did lols, but karma came back......................ok my bad, i get ya.
Now...BR sorry but for me that is a bit mean imagine this guy that started a relationship with you on his free will and lata tells you that he is not into ugly chicks i think you would be real hurt too.....He started the relationship knowing that she was chubby its not like she got chubby after they dated if you get wat i mean...-noclue
No probs at least you get wat i mean now hahahah-rockon Apparently from her diary that they found she said she really loved that old dude.....And that she hates sex god knows if its true....-whistle
That's the way to go. Direct and mean. So that the girl would say, "You meanie!!!" and leave him alone after that. They have only 'dated' superficially like what? One week? It's not like he's going to make an impact on her for the rest of her life. Even better, she may take the initiative to lose some weight and turns out lookin gorgeous.. So he's done a good deed indirectly. And pfftt, pinkapples, try not to double post and make use of the Edit and multi-quote buttons okie? -innocent2
Lol....if you say so.....yeah then our fren here (madeinchina) is gonna be like damn this is wat i missed out >.<on hahahaha
^ don't give him more reasons to go with the regret thing lol, or he might think like the shallow hal movie and they might even end up getting married before she gets "hot" lols.
