here's another idea. make sure he see her scratch butt (on purpose) and then have her grab an apple and give it to him right away. hehe
Wow, I didn't actually think many people were going to reply, seeing as how long and boring the post was. But thank you all anyways. the_alphabetman: Yeah, he does! Which is why I find him to be weird often times. While he's smart, nice, polite and all that, he tends to brag/show off a lot and it irks me. He's always telling me how much he knows about this and that (mainly cars, a subject in which I have absolutely no interest in whatsoever, but surely you cannot blame me), and tries too hard to impress, when in fact, all he's doing is producing the opposite effect. I guess that can be attributed to his lack of experience with girls? -shrug Taxloss: Yay, someone who shares my sentiments. I mean, it's nice to have someone who spoils you and all, but I think there's a way of being nice without being a pushover. Pushovers are never attractive, and I know several girls who will agree with me on this. Sad to say, but my friends don't find anything particularly attractive about this guy either ><. They pretty much see him the same way I do. =/ As for dropping hints, I think the "hints" I've dropped have already been a little over obvious. I mean, I'm always quiet when I'm around him (I'm usually a very talkative person), I always give him one-worded responses, I'm always avoiding eye-contact.... what other hints are there to give? I did tell him once what type of guy I liked, and I'm quite sure that he knows I'm not into him (probably the main reason why he hasn't asked me out yet), just that he's a very persistent type. I mean, I don't know what else there is to do. I'm trying to avoid rejecting him in his face. kdotc: Aww thanks for reading, buddy. Yeah, it is pretty annoying when your relatives try to butt into your love life, but I'm not really mad at them for that because I know they have good intentions. It's not like they're getting anything out of it (at least that I know of ). They just want what's best for me, and I guess "best" to them is someone like this guy.... adrianc:Yeah....he's definitely trying too hard to please, but I guess we (or I) can't really blame him since the guy is still pretty much lacking experience in the relationship department. Do something to piss him off? lol like what? I called him "stupid" as a joke once (note: he didn't realize I was joking), and he came home and told my mom about it. -lol She told me he told her that he was joking about something, and I thought he was being serious, so I called him "stupid". Truth was that I knew he was joking, but called him "stupid" anyway, because that's what I call my guy friends when I tease them. Either that or "loser". This guy thought I was being serious and got all worked up about it. Ecko: Rich? When did I mention me being rich? I'm actually quite poor. (Don't you remember me asking you for your credit cards? -lol) As for him, he's not THAT rich either, just that my family finds him very smart and established for someone his age. How many 19 year old guys out there own and run their own business without the help or financial support of any family members? Not to mention he just moved from China to Canada about 4-5 years ago.. I mean, he's "talented", and I can see why my parents like him and all, but all that doesn't matter if there's no chemistry between us. And I think "chic" pretty much said what I wanted to say in response to your second statement. kenshi: lol maybe you're right. Maybe he is too good for me. That will be the excuse I tell myself once I break it out to him that I have no interest in him whatsoever. At least then I can tell myself that it's my loss, not his, and I won't have to suffer from a guilty conscience afterwards. So in a sense, I'd be doing him a favor! Seriously though, I never planned on going out with him. I don't believe in playing with people's emotions like that, and I think it's pretty cruel to bring someone's hopes up, and then knock them back down. So you don't have to worry about me making him suffer, I'm not that evil And it's not like I don't know he's a nice guy (despite the cockiness), it's just that you can't really force these types of things, you know? You can meet a person that fulfills all the qualities you've ever wanted in a partner, but if there's no chemistry between the 2 of you, then there's really nothing you can do about it. Just not gonna work. brown_bear: Don't worry, b-bear, I will never under any circumstances go out with someone whom I dislike. I find it a waste of both our time since I'm already convinced that the relationship isn't going to go any where, anyway. ang: OMG, no way! hahha that's screwed up. Besides, this site is like my little hide-out place. The last thing I would want is to see him posting here as well. -lol Anyway, I sure hope this story doesn't sound familiar to anybody -unsure dann: Well, I did list out all the reasons why I don't like him in that sort of way, but my mom and aunt thinks I'm overexaggerating (I'm not, I swear!). Like when I told them I don't like the fact that he talks too much or too loudly they said something along the lines of "well, honey, that's how most guys talk. what? you want him to speak lowly and softly like a girl? and he's only talking too much because he wants to start a conversation with you. besides, you're always too quiet around him, so he wants to strike up a convo to lighten up the atmosphere. you're just thinking too much into it." How am I to respond to something like that? It's like for every negative thing I have to say about him, they'll turn it into something positive. As for the "I already have a bf" part, they wouldn't buy it, and I don't think I'd be able to lie to them anyway. I have an EXTREMELY guilty conscience. I'm afraid I'll just end up confessing afterwards. >< evil_mui: LOL! Actually I did tell him to get lost once, and I was serious about it because he said something that really ticked me off. The guy freaking took it as a joke! When I'm serious he takes it as a joke, and when I'm joking, he thinks I'm serious. I'm just hoping that some miracle would happen, and he would miraculously just forget about me or something. The worst part is that my family keeps bringing him up. I think that if this situation were to drag on any longer I'll probably end up in the mental asylum. onelove: lol you know, one of my friends suggested that I ask my mom to adopt him as a son, and thus, all my problems would be solved. I thought about it for a while, but then I figured that if my mom adopts him, that would give him even more excuses to come over to my house, and then it'd just be totally awkward. So that idea kind of got tossed out the window. Anyway, I don't hate him, so I wouldn't mind being friends with him, but I mean, it's more of his decision than it is mine. adrianc: rofl omg, that totally cracked me up. -lol But honestly, I would never do something like that (scratching butt or farting in public). That's just disgusting on so many levels. Besides, being a clean freak and all, I'm afraid that I'd end up being more grossed out about myself than he would. lol.... hiake: My uncle actually "thinks" that I like some other guy, and that it's the reason why I'm rejecting his "oh-so-perfect-every-girl-would-like-to-go-out-with" "nephew". I didn't really say anything when he brought it up. I neither confirmed nor denied it, so that doesn't really count as lying, right? BOY, AM I GLAD I PUT THIS IN THE RANT FORUM!! lol
lol PA Book of Rec. for sure... longest reply post award goes to...!! ahahhaha what you mean you ain't rich?? you're out shoppin' 24/7... jus let him buy you stuff n break him off a lil somethin somethin.. -lol
You mean like a Kit-Kat bar? -rotfl "thank you for buying me those Gucci shoes earlier." "here... as a gift of gratitude, I'll break you off a piece of my kit-kit bar .."
oh.. ahahahha.. mint_T got jokes in this bish... -lol I ment break him off a piece of your virginity.. ahahhah thas like the lastest thread trend.. virginity... Yo les put that on our show.. -lol
How exactly do you go about breaking off "a PIECE" of your virginity? -huh Nevermind. I don't think it's something I want to know -spam
LMAO.. yes it's quite an interesting concept yain't it?? you should jus tell your parents.. "We're bloody richer than them ma n pa... I can find someone 10x better than him..."
the rant was quite a fun read i think you should just go my sassy girl on him just beat him up...haha if not you could just tell him to stop being such a suck-up he sounds like a normal asian boy to me.
wow.. must be a pain for you.. but i was amused at the fact that your mom and aunt said "well, honey, that's how most guys talk." hehehe guess it doesnt apply to me -rolleyes but really tho, if you pretend to have a boyfriend, your little friend there will give up. if he persists, he's a virgin. hehehehe but honestly tho, i have this theory. we are all animals we're like a herd of deers. they fight with one another for the right to one female. and if one male wins, the other male usually doesnt feel the "heat" anymore. and that deer will back off. its the same with humans. we compete with one another for the love of one girl, and if that girl is taken, we back off (well i think most of us will anyways). ive observed this many times, but its just a theory.
