lol doesnt hurt to try it out, but u might get a slap lol and if she rejects you, yell out, O Crap, u stole my line , i was gunna say that !
seems to me like you like the girl but just had bad past experience, i'm pretty sure if you like the girl enough distance will not be a problem
ming if u like the dam gal den go for it wot u gonna loose out on? i mean the big deal is, is that u probably be embrassed for a while (if she rejects u) and after that it would be fine and back to normal (i suppose)...
Go for it! Don't even think about that guy. It's not his problem. In fact, go and finish her quick and don't even go to that church anymore. You can't face the folks there.