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Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by whoaitselaine, Apr 21, 2007.

  1. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol idk what kinda "hints" to give him. -doh help me? -sweat
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Maybe ask him waht his interests are during the weekends and arrange to do something with him.
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol i know he's in the school's handball team and he likes to play handball. but i tried playing before & i really suck at it... -cry2
     
  4. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ hehehe, good excuse to ask him to teach you.
     
  5. don

    don ello

    ^ or go to those handball games and cheer for him lol -lol
     
  6. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol i'll probably make a fool out of myself.. -_-
    lol dont know where he plays handball though-unsure
     
  7. don

    don ello

    i guess your'll have to just sit and wait hoping that the guy gets it
     
  8. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ i concur. The guy might be too shy to make a move, you should probably make the first move otherwise, you might be in for a long wait.
     
  9. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    just wondering but..... what is handball..? is it like volleyball?
     
  10. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    lol.. handball isn't really meant for most gals rite? its pretty rough & violent from the way I see guys play them.. You might be better off cheering.. -lol

    chops: handball is more like.. soccer? just that you use your hands to pass, and throw the ball into the net.. correct me if im wrong though.. vague knowledge
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ she can have a 1 - 1 lesson no? -bigclap
     
  12. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol no handball is actually this bouncy ball you use to play with & you hit it with your hand against a wall & you could play in teams if you want i think. it hurts everytime you smack the ball against the wall.>.<
     
  13. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    You mean squash? That would definitely be a good opportunity to make a move. ;)
     
  14. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol idk but they call it 'handball' around here.
    & i'll have to see if he comes to lunch tomorrow though.
    because the class i have with him, we switch every 2 weeks.
    & for the next 2 weeks we have a different class,
    & i dont sit next to him. so yeahh. -cry2
     
  15. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Dont give up! Life is always full of interesting surprises when you least expect them to happen. -sorc
     
  16. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    aww thanks wind-hug
    i asked my friend what i should do.
    & she told me to ask him if he likes me.
    but wouldn't that be too awkward? o.o;
    asking him..directly.
     
  17. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    How long have you known the guy? If you have known him for quite some time, maybe drop in some obvious hints that you would like to start a relationship. But if not, just act normal and have chats with him and wait till he makes the first move. In any case, just wait because knowing guys, he'll eventually comes around telling "i like/ love you" when he's ready. ;)
     
  18. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    ohhh so its rugbie......

    hahahaha that is hella what i was thinking..like hold up watch out for that waterfall hahah....was hella thinking hold up are u like 9 ... cus they said something about a handball team......
     
  19. aZn-BoNnEr

    aZn-BoNnEr Well-Known Member

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    i think u should tell him to f off? or "go ask him out?"
     
  20. DuchSauce

    DuchSauce Well-Known Member

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    I think you're talking about European hand ball.

    @Elaine: I think you should ask him directly too. It'd make my life easier if I didn't have to do all the work asking a girl out. It's awkward for guys too.