How to ask out....

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by AsianInvasion, Feb 13, 2008.

  1. AsianInvasion

    AsianInvasion Well-Known Member

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    I have no idea if she likes me :d.. all I know is its real fun when we hang out haha... Wish I knew more about a women's mind :]
     
  2. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol ask her, or check her diary and stuff, lol,
     
  3. Raymond_Cheung

    Raymond_Cheung Well-Known Member

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    That is not a good sign mate, probably she sees you as a good friend.

    Ok I am kidding you! At least you should give her a hint that you likes her. Ask her out! When you are together with her go to the point and say you like someone. (Not mention her directly) Wait for her reaction. Her reaction will tell you a lot what to do next. The second option is ask her directly what type of guy she likes? But remember be serious and look in her eyes. Ask her if you are a possible candidate? This two tactics always work.
     
  4. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    thats just invasion of privacy. she def won't like u after if she finds out and ur friendship will def be in ruins.

    how do u know a tactic will laways work. everybody is different.

    my advice just invite her to the movies and start slowing giving hints see how she reacts and then decide. also be sure to check that she doesn't already have a bf. besides from what u've told me ur friendship isn't a deep one so there is a chance as she won't already see u as bro.
     
  5. cadeline

    cadeline Well-Known Member

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    Friendships are great. How long have you been hanging out??

    Just as you enjoyed hanging out with her, then you should just continue. Create opportunities. You don't have to date her. Just invite friends and hang out. This way it is non committal and it's always a chance for you to back off if you change your mind (you could change your mind once you see her with other people; whether she is considerate or caring). Give the friendship a chance to grow deeper before really deciding if you want more. I am thinking of a safe way. Test the waters for longer before making a leap.

    Anyway, whatever way you choose. I wish you all the best.
     
  6. ckthepilot

    ckthepilot Well-Known Member

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    ask her out... if tha's what you really want.
     
  7. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    Organise something....for juz both of u and also the group of frens occassionally....
     
  8. AsianInvasion

    AsianInvasion Well-Known Member

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    Ok, Im going to try "testing the waters," I hope it works it ^^, Thanks for all the help :D !!!!!
     
  9. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

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    get a microphone and say "I LOVE U" :)
     
  10. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    hey good luck with it. tell us how u get on.