are we talking about a school club here? or actual clubbing? at night with music and girls? i dont know much about school clubs (because i dont go to any myself, altho i am a member of many clubs =P) but if you and your friends go clubbing (because youre obviously of age) there many chances =) its actually very fun! well otherwise, i would suggest the library, as stated before. sit down, and spot. find a girl you like, go up to her and talk casually. well good luck to you! EDIT: by all means! act like yourself, dont act like what you think she would want you to act like. down show desperation or signs of being down and such, if you know what i mean =)
Aznmask, I can relate to you. You don't strike me as the type that will randomly talk to strangers or sit next to them. You are probably the shy type. You are only 22yrs old so you are not exactly old! I reckon the best way for you is to maybe start talking to some gals on the net, (try yahoo games!) Once you have "experienced" talking to some gals you be more confident to approach some girls you do see in person. If you are lucky you may even meet a gal online! Trust me once you start working earning some big bucks you will find urself going out more meeting new people etc.. and it will come naturally!! Never be so desperate. I can almost guarantee some girl will come when you least expect it like it did for me!
join a club, sprts or (chinese) society at university something that interest u and u might find one that u have in commom with easy to start a talk with
meeting people starts with yourself there is no manual or strict rules on how to meet someone... I'm 5"7 too, but there's one thing that I'm sure of: height and looks aren't decisive to whether a girl likes you or not! and if a girl does dislike you becoz of your looks, she's just not worth it!!! what is decisive on meeting people is your appearance, the feeling and impression people get when they see you. if you show joy, happiness and confidence, I'm sure it wouldn't be you wanting to meet them, but them wanting to know more about u! and don't try forcing love! one of my friends once told me: love is like a butterfly, if you try to reach out to it, it'll just fly away. but when you're not watching or hoping for it, It'll come eventually and sit on your hand
just be urself bro, you don't wanna get a girl when it starts w/ a lie, than when she finds the truth and takes it the wrong way, than ur self confidense in urself to find another girl goes down. Pop by a dance club w/ ur friends, chill, hell, use the technique of buying a drink for a random girl u want to go talk too, and do the smirk and show interest in her, that should break some barrier.
except there are those people who are grinning madly and try to exhibit confidence, when in fact they look like total grinning morons and/or creepy in general.
just be yourself! love is everywhere one day u will find your lover! But if u cant wait.... whats about a blind date? XD
Be confident,nothing sexier lol I find it hard talking to someone who lets me do all the question asking or talking because they can`t think of anything to say at all.lol I would say be yourself but sometimes,you need that lil change to get you noticed appearance wise Like you can choose to change your hairstyle,t can be for the better sometimes I`ve had blond hair before and that really gets me noticed lol,where as when I went back to dark brown everybody kept bumping into me in the club because Im a shortie too :( so harder to see me hehe since I`m only 4ft 11
blond chinese...Óò thats a good idea!! if u are asian, then be blond ! u will get noticed !!! i swear lol...
It is so easy to make friends in college. You should join a club in your school. That way you automatically have something in common w/ eveyone else in the group. Then don't be shy. Be more vocal and care not about what people thinking about you. Before u know it you'll have friends calling you off the hook! (well maybe not off the hook but u'll definately make some freinds)
its hard to be not that shy lol if your just shy its hard to learn that off... 5 years ago i was REALLY shy.. i couldnt even talked normal to girls XD but now i sometimes only have problems to talk with the girls i really like.. and those girls who are really confident about themself :( so not shy girls.. its hard
i know..there's alot of fobs around here, where i live -__-; it's annoying..they're really loud and some have weird-colored hair..blue..pink..red..and the list goes on.. O.O
Yeah I agree with the people saying you should change your style and get noticed. Try not to be so typical. Don't be a typical asian guy, but don't go so far you become a fob. Also, try and make more eye contact with girls you are interested in haha, maybe she'll catch your eye and be interested too. It happens!
