ya i know about this.. i don't have to like her just to know more about her friends. But the problem is i can't find any girl that i can sit next to.
my god last time i looked at this thread it was on pg1 now pg5, wow people must have given you enough advice for you to write a book -lol
lol. i should go write a book about this. rofl. u dont go get a gf. the gurl comes to you. u cant find one like u'd go shopping for a laptop. just be urself. it'll come
I'm getting a bit tired of reading the "be yourself" comments. If a person is rude, always negative, disrespectful, has poor hygene, and spends his unemployed behind sitting in his room watching porn. Do you truly believe that the person should continue to "be yourself"? Obvious this is an extreme example, but my point is that the "be yourself" idea is "bull crap". For the average guy, this advice is still mediocre at best because we all have flaws. For all the guys that wants to improve their "game", you really should start by improving yourself. Improve your fitness, improve your style, improve your intelligence, improve your communication skills, improve your body language, improve your awareness to your surroundings, etc, etc, etc. Only until you've improved yourself to a point where you become attractive to women, will women come to you. News Flash: Physical traits such as height, weight, face play a small part in having women think you're attractive. Physical appearance, however, do make a difference. They pay attention to things such as your sense of style, your hygene, your scent and your body language much more. Guys that know how to clean themselves up well are almost guaranteed a 6-7 or better (on the 10 scale in looks). So guys, don't blaim your height or weight or race or whatever as the cause for your inability to meet woman, and don't just "be yourself", but continuously find ways to better yourself. That's all I have to say for now, I'm skipping the whole personality portion because I've typed too much already and I have to return to work.
Your height is not really that big of a problem. The first thing is you have to have confidence in yourself like the other guy said, self improvement until the point you truly like yourself, because you know yourself best and if you don't like you, why would other people like you. Besides that don't aim for a girlfriend since you have no friend that is a girl, I suggest you look around for somone you want to be friends with not necessarily a girlfriend and start from there. Here's the tricky part you must express that you are interested in being there friend, but don't ask for her number and stuff right away. After seeing her for a while, sitting next to class and make small talk, say this lecture is boring, what other classes are you taking etc. can I borrow your notes I wasn't here and if she is friendly and nice she'll help you out. Afterwards, if its near lunch time tell her your craving for a cup of coffee starbucks or something to wake you up from this boring lecture and ask her if she wants to join you (offer to buy it as a thanks) make sure she is free after class before asking. If she rejects you just say maybe next time, or are you sure ? start up another conversation about coffee, tea , how it speeds up your metabolism or whatever comes to mind. but don't overdo it she might have to rush to her next class. I don't know what your current physical appearnce is, but if its not too up with the trends I suggest you pick up a magazine say Maxim and just get a pair of jeans and a black t-shirt. Causal and looks good. Hope this helps, let me know what happens. Remember to express interest in becoming friends by talking to her.
I don't give a f*** about my height... I don't have a girlfriend, at least not for 3 years now... but about the height thing, I hate ladies who prefer the whole height factor... I believe that a lot of short dudes have more heart than taller guys... meaning that they're more warrior like. Sounds corny, but I'm sure that girls prefer the girls like to have a warrior by their side rather than some standing tower who is weaker than the leaning tower of piza. That's just me. As far as your situation is concerned. Don't rush at all! Be paitent. Focus on your passion in life, passion in girls? Hell no! I'm talking about your career, and if you have some kind of hobby, be it music or sports, focus on that. Be more confident, if you don't feel confident, hit the gym or buy some weights and do some exercise, that'll help a bit, but the confidence thing requires you to go and talk to more and more people. I honestly saw myself increase my confidence drastically, to the point where I can be cocky and arrogant. Despite that, the fact that I had lost that urge to court girls, and focused more on my priorities, I was able to talk to more girls without any feeling of resentment emitting from them. Good luck!
Buy some of those pheremones they advertise in the back of all those men's magazines. i've always been curious as to if those work or not.
There are chemical reactions within a body that are tied to lust, love, etc. The best way to trigger those feelings in a woman is to establish an emotional connection, not some magic fairy dust that you can spray on yourself. Yes I know what pheremone is, but as far as I'm concerned, it's as effective as imaginary fairy dust.
Should hop over and transfer yourself to my University. Girl to Boy ratio is about 4.25 to 1, should solve some if not all your problems. Imagine being the only guy in a 4th year criminology seminar course.... ><; Just be yourself and don't act the "cool" type whenever you and a girl make eye contact with you. Hell, I would keep trying to get her to make eye contact with me during lecture or seminar classes even if it's for a glimpse =P
arrghhss... guys are so silly laa.. omgz! dun be afraid to approach a random girl. We are ppl like you guys tooo! I love meeting new ppl if they seem sincere and not.. uhh.. creeepy LOL. I know lotsa girls are afraid to approach guys but it's nottt thattt bad. I talk to random ppl in class and in the halls all the time Its one of the greatest ways to meet friendsssssss. Justa word of advice to all you misters out there.... Pick up lines do NOT work... It just makes it seem like you just wanttt... -censored rawr. Instead, approach a girl with the intent on being FRIENDS... then work your way from there
hahaha yah its sad when u notice them and they dun notice u.. how sad =[ make it a goal to be more outgoing =D
