you need to have a nice personality that seems to be open minded. smile alot, dont look like youre a shy guy. flirt a lil, talk to whoever(girl) sits next to you in class, hoping u can just make some friends. ifyou dont make a move, why should they make it?
be sincere and it's better to make the first move. if she doesn't respond, so be it. try somone else.
just saw this thread to the OP, do you have a job, if not get a part time job in retail or something that allows you to talk to customers more. most of the shy people i knew stopped being so shy after they started working because they talk to all sorts of people and their communication skills just improve. just be confident in yourself, don't worry about looks, heights whatever.
Just be yourself... Do some volunteer work or if you're religious, go to the temple or church and just ask someone to answer a question that you have. You're in college, well go join a club or talk to your classmates! Once you start to talk to anyone and everyone, the girls will come to you. You just need to put yourself out there to start with.
To Skid, yeah i work partime.. my look is not bad.. maybe i post my picture in here soon. height is 5 "7. ok, this is my first week of the spring semester. In my Chorus class there is so many asian girls and the class room is in a big audience room, so how i can approach to them? I dont know anyone in the class.. so
ASian girls are easy! Just keep thinking that the girls are expecting you to hit on them. You are just afraid of getting rejected. I know how you feel. Just go to the gym and get that chest pumped and work on that six pac. Then your confidence will skyrocket. Maybe then you can show off your six pac in your chorus class. The gym is a good place to meet girls 2.
ok you have asian girls in your classroom, then just go up and be friendly, don't go up to them with the intention of trying to pick them up or impress them. if its the first week of the semester, it should really be easy as i find that most people don't know each other and so are more willing to make new friends and meet people. i think you're putting too much pressure on yourself, just be confident and it will work out smoothly.
You don't need to work out for a nice body to hit on chicks. You just gotta be confident in yourself. Don't look at chicks as a potential date or anything. Or, if you still really shy, start w/ the average looking chicks or the not so good looking ones. You'll make new friends that are girls, and who knows, maybe they'll know other girls whom you will meet.
How to get a girl friend?! Very easy and enjoyable, follow these well proven steps:- 1) Go to yesasia.com 2) Buy DVD titled Densha Otoko (the drama version and not the movie one as you need to work slowly and gradually on this) 3) Then dress up like an Otaku 4) Act bravely (drink some alcohol helps but don't drink so much that you become like the drunk guy on the train!) and start talking to girls 5) If you have not talked to girls before and have little experience, be careful not to mistake one with a cross dresser! (See for yourself how easy to make a mistake by viewing "My Sassy Girl". ............ If you are 22 then you will need to do this till your are nearly 30 at least, especially if you are a Singaporean, takes a much longer time there to find a girl friend!
avoid thos speed dating games!!!! we had one at our college it was interesting to observe it was 45% freshman 45% seniors and the rest people of the other classes all the seniors were there as a joke half the freshman were there as a joke and the rest of the freshman, sadly were there to find someone so that is a ratio of 3:1 people there as a joke go there to have fun, but never to meet girls
my chest is pretty pump, arms, shoulder, top part is pretty good shape(from natural without exercise lmao). But i have to work on my 6-pack.. which can't be born from natural so i have to really do crunch but i alway forget to do.
skip crunches. work your abs on the decline bench. Wear some name brand clothes. Chicks dig guys with fashion sense. Also, just randomly ask her about the class you both are in. Like ask her about the HW and stuff. The point is to start a conversation. You don't have to sit next to her. Just talk to her when class is over.
The girl gotta give you some sort of signal first b4 you can make a move. Like the way she smile at you, the way she glance at you. It's obvious. You would definitely notice it.
lol i dont wear any brand cloth taht have a big name in front of my cloth. i usually prefer style over brand. No brand cloth make it more unique, czu it make ppl wonder what brand is that, how much it cost. Plus i pay cheap compare to brand cloth.
Start wearing those brand named clothes! You want hot chicks right? Hot chicks dig nice clothes, especially if they are brand named ones. Do something with your hair. Make it look good. If you want hot chicks, that's what you have to do. Get some Gap, banana republic, American Eagle.............and so on. -rockon
-smile! it always works. a nice smile beats the fear of saying hi. plus, if a girl thinks you look easy enough to confront, she'll start the conversation. -keep your head up. if you stare at your feet while walking, try focusing on people's faces or other surroundings, it'll make you look like you're confident/comfortable. -look focused. guys who look clueless or uninterested aren't very attractive.... -make lots of eye contact (in general. not just to potiential mates.) people who focus on faces have strong personalities. -pay attention/listen. when in class, if a girl you might like is talking, pay attention to what she it saying. you can respond, defend her comment, etc. girls are always aware. and they're looking, too. haha. not just guys.
