Just talk to them, treat them like the guys get to know them only when you know some one can you like them or love them if not it's just a crush ....
be confident in yourself and talk to them esp in college you have lots of opportunities to talk to gilrs and meet new ones
yeah that's true, unless you can find girls at work or go out on the weekend, but usually people would want to concentrate on developing their career at that stage.
either do soemthing like extremly awsome that the whole school will know who u are, or join a sports team. Girls dig sports players. they also dig bad boys too, but i'm not telling u to do something bad. but the looks from reading what u say, ur not that socaible if u couldn't meet one friend in a simester. just ask questions in class, even stupid ones, just so the whole class knows who u are. then they will talk about u and one to another, people will know who u are. hope this helps.
tehre is 1 girl/1guy in my course.. on today i have a chance to talk to her. in cantonese "hmm you know cantonese" she reply " yes , i thought u r korean" I reply "maybe i got a tiny eye and u mistaken me as korean" althought she not my cup of tea, i just want to make a friend. Now there is a whole bunch of cantonese in my chorus, some of them from my high school( not my graduate year but they younger) It even make more diffucult if i going to them and ask them do u speak cantonese. WHich it make me look more stupid. Plus my seat and their seat is like 2000 mile far. Tomorrow my plan is to going to college gym(since i quit YMCA) to do some workout. I hope i can make some achievement.. not just physically, but some friends.
My boyfriend was 26 when we first got together. And i'm his first and only girlfriend. You are only 22. You have nothing to worry about. There are many great girls out there. If you want a girlfriend just because you feel lonely or you think you are getting old, that is not a good reason. You will know when the right person comes along and then your heart will tell you what you should do.
new update --;.. couple month have passed since this thread.. and i have so much to say about it. My cousin introduced me a girl .. i didn't expect it czu he told me going to play some pool. I talk with her for a little.. etc.. nothing really happen, (althought the girl goes to the same college but i never meet her b4). 1 week passed we go to other poolroom(Boston bowl) i just talk to her,, and my cousin ask me in restroom if i have ask her for phonenumber. i mean i never realized that czu at this point i'm not really interest with her. i thought our relationship could be just friend. BUt my cousin want hook her up with me. THen while we leaving my cousin probably told her to exchanged our cellphone number. I was embarrassed at this point. then on monday (springbreak) my cousin call me if i want go out to eat dinner czu the girl's female friend's birthday. I have nothing to do, so why not. He told me to pick up the girl in her house. lets skip it into the dinner... the girl's friend (female) has big thick face(talk so much) keep recalling my name.. and asking me stuff.. kind of make me nervous. I dont feel good in the dinner. I usually dont act like that(i'm really talktive infront of my friends.) anyway while we finish the dinner we went back to a poolroom and i can notice the girl wasn't interest on me either.. we play pool .etc. WHile i drove her home,, i speed it up to 70mph.. like i should be their house fast. I mean i should drive slowly and ask her question --; in the car i try talk to her.. asking her a stupid question "do u think i'm kind of shy" she replied "litle bit" i didnt talk much in the car.. just some random stuff (i forgot what i talk with her).... anyway i never call her... czu i dont know what to say,, czu her age probably around 22. she not those girl just got out from highschool. My cousin still hooking me with her.. another dinner .. 6 ppl (me, girl, cousin, cousin's gf, and the girl's friend(female) and her bf). her friend make me nervouse czu she talk so much stuff make me talkless, etc...
hmm...my school filled with girls!!! Hahaha..over here we are looking for guys! Anyway, well..i guess ..You should start going to organization beside the one's in school! I mean like join a local swimming pool, or like go to some asian hang out places..pretend you looking for direction and then talk!!! Talking is a good way to start any coversation..this is call communication!
I saw the girl in our college gym... at first i kind of happy atleast talking to a girl make a hell difference, i pretend i didn't saw her, and go do some bench. THen for 15min later i go up to her.. asking her, random question like,,.. "dont u have class soon" she replied "ya.. at 4" i said me too.. then i ask her who drive u home , is your friend? or u want me drive u home.. she replied her mom drive her home --;.. i was ic.. then we talk for a little .. then i told her i have to couple more set on other exercise. ( i walk away)
Why didn't you ask her more info? Like "hey u seem like a cool person, let's grab lunch if you don't mind" or something like that...Hahahah..or like "soo what's your major" keep the conversationg going...until you know a good amount of information...
i didn't ask much infor about her.. like how many yr she came to US, i didnt create much more infor to keep the conversation going. I didnt have the ball to call her.. czu i dont know what to say. One of my friend told me she might be those high maintenance girl,.. wear AF brand. have u guys read the --- New update.. post on #132?
Hey i do that to everyone!! No problem for me..Guys and girls..the first time i meet them...Ask them till you find something in common and just go on...and on...
