Right now she needs to be surrounded by her friends :] She's probs going through the 'self pitying' phase... give her time to dwell over him. That's essential. & then she'll go through the 'hatred phase' so you can gather all your friends & have a massive bitching session. Fun ! Slowly try and get her back out into the party scene to keep her mind off depressing thoughts. Being alone will be very hard for her since she probs spent most of her time with her ex? So just be with her as much as you can She'll get over it eventually, & the best cliche ever- ''time heals everything''. But you just don't know when.
Spend time with friends, eat yummy food, do activities like sport, walk in the park, cinema. Time is the best healer
Just keep her occupied, since its her first relationship im assuming she pourred her heart out to this guy. Shes going to go through some emotional issues, try and comfort her, and dont let her do anything silly that will harm herself.
Tell her that the first relationship is always like this, take this as experience and move on. Also time will heals all the wound.
tell her to date his best friend... lol thats a good way to kick him in the balls without doing it literally
ye but thats just messing with other ppl's heads and besides he prob wouldn't care if he was the one that broke up with her. it is also rele immature to do that and is just stooping to a low level. unless u rele do like his best friend.
You peeps shouldnt talk too much about him. It will just be harder for her to forget. Have fun.. go introduce her to other better guys. Once she realize that he isnt that great, it will be so much easier to move on
the problem with that habib718 is that she might not be ready to see other guys, i say just keep her preoccupied with other activites is the best way and also u don't want other guys taking advantage of her vulnerabilty now.
hmm - in the perspective as a christian - I suggest you shd turn 2 god for guidance...he would help you through all troubles
