Im sry to hear bout ur fwend... but I think the only thing that can ever heal a broken heart is...Time... so i guess u as a fwend can give her alot of encouragement and try to go out n hav fun wit her in order to help her forget bout the unhappy things?
unfortunately, 1st relationship breakups gona be hard, all you can do is be there and wait. Take her out for shopping, movies, meals etc, and do fun stuff that only singles can do, ie. flirt with guys (but only flirt and no further, dont want her to go for some1 just cos), go out weneva you want without having to think about the guy etc, and hopefully she'll realise its not the end of the world.
tell her to keep busy and hang out with friends. friends really help at these times. you can always give her the usual " if it was meant to be, then they'll be together in the future " speech.
give her time, and let her know that u'll be there for her whenever she needs u...and mean it =)...if she needs to get her feelings out, lend her a shoulder...and go out with her, to keep her mind off of sad things
This fastest way to get over someone is to find someone else. Not neccessarily a new boyfriend, maybe just another target. So go out, meet new people, meet new guys!!
yes.... time is the best medicine!!! give her some time.... n.. accompany her more... occupied her time with more things... make her think of the guy less.. then it will be better... =)
Go for a girls night out. Something like a movie, but not too touchy with the relationship part - more like comedy genre if so. Or go to the beach, seashore sounds are every comforting. Or get her another guy. If so, don't be too pushy. Make her think there's plenty of better guys out there ahhah Time is always good. Get her away from the guy as much as you can. Obviously, the guy doesn't care much abt ur friend. Try to convince her that he's not worth worrying abt. Make her feel like she will do better than fine without him, and soon she will think so too and magically her confidence will too. Be in a cheery spirit around her. Remind her how lovable she is -but not overly done. an one more thing, the most important thing: Girls as always have to BE and act PRECIOUS
Well, most important thing is that she herself has to look on the bright side. Tell her than things also happen for a reason. As her friend, all that you can do is to listen to her when she wants to rant. Try to remain as positive as you can. If the old one doesn't go, how can there be space for the new ones to come? She might be very anti-social during these times. So make sure that you will be there to bring her out. Remind her of the fun loving person that she is.
Most important thing is that those around her have to keep her thinking positive. Take time to listen to her, take her to do the things that she use to like. Things always happen for a reason. When one door closes, another will be open. But the problem with us is that we often look at the close door and not realizing that another door had been opened.
its not whether to heal a broken heart well its either she finds someone else, or becomes friends with this guy if not just let time do the thinking but for the time being tell her to get some chicken soup =/ i onno chicken soup heals all things, why not a broken heart right? anyways hope your friend feels a lot better
I know someone who just eat and eat and eat, until she added 15 pounds, gee .... but that's someone's idea
Haha that was a great list....thats defo one way to deal with it.. As some have mentioned time is a good healer... as its her first relationship it's always the hardest one to get over since its the first time your heart gets broken - the hurt and pain will feel unbearable but the best thing to do is stay strong, keep yourself occupied by spending time with your close friends, taking up a new hobby or do things you've always wanted to do. Have the me time to find yourself again. Tell her not to think too much about it as there are plenty of fish in the sea and it's his loss not yours.
