haha. yea like they are "experimenting" when they get someone's cock up their buttholes... lol i guess you can call it sexist but thats the same opinion even if you ask a couple of million straight guys guess life isn't fair? wait so do girls like seeing boy on boy then or does that only go one way. if girls like seeing guys on guys then i guess i was being unfair
i wont say i like the sight of it but then i don't oppose anything that's gay.. it's just that it is more acceptable for girl on girl than boy on boy coz i would sitll say this society is still male dominated, therefore whatever the majority of the male thinks it's a disgracde, it's still a disgrace and they won't see it as how i am seeing it atm.. plus i'm not being funny, on what you said about boys getting it up the ringer, girls don't exactly have that penis to actually help that's why they use strap ons? LOL
lols yea i guess its just the way straight guys should think by the media standards as i guess i'm getting that opinion partially from what the media feed us. anyways i won't extend this anymore, don't want to discourage the OP from coming out, i guess i would've said the same thing if it was a guy that is gay just come out of the closet can't hide it forever, don't have anything against gays really as long as they don't try to expose themselves to much and keep things that should be private...private (same with straight couples lol) if you don't come out you're just living a lie.
^ lol but in this situation it's hard push yourself to tell your conservative and strict family that you are gay so some people have to live in a lie to keep their parents happy.......... until you come to realise that they somehow support gay rights? maybe take those kinda parents to some sort of gay community and see if they change their minds hahaa
lol come to think of it really no idea how to handle these situations although if they bring their parents to a gay community would you think that they would get freaked out more lol maybe she should introduce her girlfriend to her parents first then take it a little slow.
^ well usually people jsut stereotype people and just hate's gays straight away coz it is "unatural" that people at the same gender being a couple coz they can't produce babies... but when they get to know them better they are friendly towards them?? just pre-judging people at the end of the day and whether you are that open minded or not.. also introducing her as a friend and taking it slow may work but her parents may only expect them as best friends rather than being a couple, or thye may have worked out and be in denial about it and still forces her to "surng tay" (if they are that strict and conservative )
^lol yeah denial lol. i'm sure asian parents are very good at that. but i don't see how bringing them to a gay community will help if they are very strict, something can happen and they can even have a more negative opinion than before.
^ just depends what personalities the gay people they meet, if they are respectful or just one of them who lacks manners... all depends on personalities if they liek the personality they may think that gay people are like the same as hetrosexuals
lol i still think they will freak out if they see first hand a guy kissing another dude or a girl kissing another girl or just holding each other. public affection like that isn't very rare.
if they have lived in the western society for like years then they won't really think much of it though.. if they were the ones that never goes out or just migrated... then they will get freaked out for sure! maybe the girl's parents needs to be hypnotised to make the acceptance a lot easier
yeah drugging them for the rest of their lives is alot of work coz you have to make sure they take those pills haha but then hypnotising them is to spend a lot of cash on someone who can hypnotise LOL maybe i might from Dr. J from that Snooker drama not long ago haha
Obviously, most of the people answering this thread seem to be young and fairly open minded and liberal. The OP has already stated that the parents are nothing like that; in fact, they are probably the exact opposite, ie. strict and traditional. From someone who is fairly traditional, let me tell you, her parents are going to be emotionally crushed. This isn't about her right to live her life (which she indeed has) but rather about the expectations of her parents. To a traditional parent, if she came home with a black man, it would be more tolerable than to come home with another woman. Yes, I know that's racist and isn't PC, but to a traditional Asian parent, that's what you're dealing with. :stickpoke: My advice, don't tell them; or if you must, first move away from them as far as you can, and then put it off for as long as you can. You'll have to face up to the fact that there really isn't any nice way to tell them. >.<
I guess it might be easier to start off with conversations related to similar topic and see how they react first...kinda like testing the waters.
Hello friends, yea like they are "experimenting" when they get someone's cock up their buttholes... lol i guess you can call it sexist but thats the same opinion even if you ask a couple of million straight guys guess life isn't fair? wait so do girls like seeing boy on boy then or does that only go one way. if girls like seeing guys on guys then i guess i was being unfair. Thanks
yeah you should tel... like i got my ears pierced and mum was really against that kind of thing and saying it was gay and stuff.. but den she accepted when she saw it even though it took some time
