How To Recover From The End of A Long Term Relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by fearless_fx, Apr 11, 2011.

  1. zack55555

    zack55555 Well-Known Member

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    Sigh.. I've been there. I was actually living together with my ex for 2 years and was planning to get married before she told me she was fucking another guy. It was really tough for me. It took me years to finally able to get over it.

    Just go out and meet with new people. Shifting your focus on another girl is probably the best way to forget. Don't dwell into the past anymore, it's not going to help. Be a MAN, do the right THANG!
     
  2. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    Ouch. That sucks man... My situation is no where near that shitty. I can't imagine how badly it would feel to know you'd be betrayed like that.

    I'd also want to get tested for STD's and shit after something like that... what a huge headache that must have been.

    Thanks for the input though. And yeah, falling in love is easy... forgetting is hard as hell.
     
  3. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    my cure is to get laid ASAP, serious. A suggestion :)
     
  4. i joined the club couple days ago... i told her we dont match and shouldn't be together.. time to forget and its hard as hell trying not to go back but it helps when the girl totally ignores you =p
     
  5. Wahhh u actually did it angus -clapclap
     
  6. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    easier said than done.... But il work on it :p
     
  7. Flames

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    You got lexus, you can try gentlemens club ;)
     
  8. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    How about going to the temple or church? It helps clean your depressing thought. Sleeping around for instant gratification doesn't resolve anything but exposing you to potential STD. Getting laid ain't hard but the consequence can devastating so I suggest you throw that idea out the window.
     
  9. Flames

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    What happens if he/she goes to the same church?
     
  10. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    lol im non religious, but I have been to both temples and churches in the past.

    I'd have to say... sex > church :Talktohand:
     
  11. random008

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    i feel for you bro. Listen to some Jay chow and remember, plenty more fish in the sea.

    Learn from your past relationship and I hope your next one will be a loving and long -lasting one. Take care!
     
  12. seconded
     
  13. lol as the name suggest.. that's some random ass advice.. :facepalm:
     
  14. yall niggas need to repent for your sins.. smiley_pray.gif
     
  15. What sins....
     
  16. Paperboy

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    Time will heal everything, just let it go! Maybe you can go out with youre friend to try to find a new date. Thats what i have done before and that is what helped me before.
     
  17. Anna Lee

    Anna Lee Active Member

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    give up your LD relationship?