how to survive long relationship

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by sensei, Jan 5, 2007.

  1. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    since there is emotional and physical cheating defined in therapy.. from what i understand, it is defined as.. emotional and/or physical unfaithfulness with a person outside of an agreed exclusive relationship

    but nobody is telling you what to do.. if you really feel that cheating is right and should be condoned, then go ahead
     
  2. of coz i know no one can tell me how to think nor wot to do (well... may b except for the person that pays my wage)... but i also know we r only human... this can happen to anyone... n if i can't tolerate it or even accept this fact i'll b spending the rest of my life asking "y me?" if it ever happens...
     
  3. thanx4nothin

    thanx4nothin Active Member

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    lol. well, first of all, don't go out on single dates all the time. make it group dates. it makes you cherish each other more. you also have to learn the other's weird little habits and learn to put up with them. don't always have the physical, that always makes you take the other for granted. you should have some talk time too. where you just sit down together and just talk. that way you'll understand each other more. and i know this is impossible to do, but trust each other and don't draw your own conclusions. especially girls, i know, we always think wayyyy to much. but trust your partner and let him/her explain first.
     
  4. thanx4nothin

    thanx4nothin Active Member

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    hah. lemme edit what i just said. if you really think that he's cheating or something, ask him about it. cause usually it's a misunderstanding and the guy has no clue what you're thinking about. let me put it this way. don't think too much. lol
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    This is funny. quoting urself n edit? Do you see the Edit button on the right?
     
  6. thanx4nothin your as bad as me when it comes to figuring out all these functions lols
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    But surprisingly, you managed to figure out how to PM a member? Isn't that more complicated than to edit or quote a post? -rolleyes
     
  8. kianu

    kianu Well-Known Member

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    Love,honest,faithful,trust,understanding...if a relationship has those 5 things..i think it could last very long time
     
  9. *sigh* easier said than done
     
  10. miruru

    miruru New Member

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    for me, a relationship needs to be based on love,trust and honesty. if not of these exist in an relationship, then there are problems