i mean you had a huge fight... and stuff and out of anger maybe they would do that but if they calmed down and told you then why not forgive them.. give them that second chance
Yes Its very hard to accept him or her. If she is not drinkin or something. Like she break your trust ? So its very easy to forgive everything and just accept her ? I don't think that its very easy for anyone to do that. Anyway Humans made for mistakes. So its depend on her or that situation. But use always your brain for get better advice.
lol i would say , Look at who he/she cheated you for, if its a Porkchop or Steak, DONT FORGIVE HIM, it just proves that she/he has bad taste, i mean , if the 3rd person was hot, yer that explains it, but if they're worst than you , Ugh, Break up right away , coz they have no taste at all
Maybe guys cheat more, so when it's payback they accept it? haha :b Tough decision, I don't know what I'll do in this situation and I don't really want to think about it. But first off, it would be better if they slept with someone I DIDN'T know rather I did, because then I'd hate on my friend too. I don't think I can forgive them because I get so dramatic and turn into an emotional wreck about something that happened in the past - nothing to do with me - so god knows what happens when something bad happens (in the present) to us! But if I were to stay with the cheater, I can only find two conclusions: I won't take the relationship seriously as before, and probably unconciously flirt with other people because I'm constantly reminding myself of how hurt I was - maybe it's payback or maybe it's because I keep thinking about that night and frustrates me - and because I have a grudge to bear, lol. Secondly, I'm constantly paranoid about if that was their first time cheating on me? If it'll happen again, etc. The only good conclusion from this is it'll make the relationship stronger. Obviously I don't know what I'll really do in this situation and hope I won't ever have to find out! But at the moment I think I'll break it off immediately. BTW: by "cheating" I mean they have sex with another person because some people have a different view on what cheating is. That's not what Cheryl Cole did! She's hot, but the person her husband cheated with was NOT! (so i've heard) I wonder what was going through his mind? Silly boy.
lol yer its weird, some ppl have the weirdiest thoughts, cheating with someone whos like Porkchop or something uke:
like if this relationship has lasted a really long time... i might be able to say i forgive but the incident will never be forgotten and no matter what she does i will never be able to look at her the same again.
if my bf did that to me....i'd forgive him... i wouldnt do it straight away...but i'd eventually forgive him...cos i love him too much...
lol May u are not Jute Enough, some guys are Sei Sing But Goi , Yut Chi But Zhong , Baik Chi But Yong
even though he was in the wrong...i'd feel bad an think its my fault... so it would then be a case of whether he wants me back not if i would take him back... but i guess i cant be jute....i believe he can change
i mite be naive or sor and childish but i can be quite jute dependin on the situation but then i'd feel bad again...
i am willing to forgive and forget, because i think the person should be given another chance to learn their mistakes. I can be quite stubborn based on how people see me, but I am quite sensitive to these situations, like recalled by May how she would forgive her bf if he cheated on her (though that would never happen, cos i am like best friends with him, haha)
The answer is NO. No matter it was a truly innocent mistake or not and forgivable you are; with time, the scar of cheating will be a thorn with you for the rest of your life. You will feel insecure and there will be a slight resentment in the relationship. If that's case, it's best to let go and move on. When trust is broken, it can't never be mended.
