I just told a girl

I hope so.. this week she snapped at me like never before. I don't know if it was because it was that time of the month (sorry ). I'll try to talk to her tonight

 

I think it is better to tell her in a very nice and simply way, just enought that she will notice and have you in your mind.
say something like ( you smelll good, or last night you were always on my mind so I have to tell you ......) not to overreact
so do you best, the most girl are having a positive side of getting a flirt

 

yeah best to get back on good terms and apologise if you wish, and it seems shes fixated on going overseas, so you should support her ~

 

Yea of course I will support her. I'll always be there for her

 

I suppose its her way of letting you down gently?

 

never give up hope

 

Apologize to her and see what comes out of it. Can you give some examples of why she snapped at you?

Just because she said she "might" move back to her country, doesnt necessarily mean that is going to happen. If you think and feel that shes worth it, go for it and try again.

Whether she's going to be with you or not, at least you have given yourself the chance to try.

Wish you best of luck.

 

Tell her

...."I don't mind you getting mad as long as you'll be thinking of me."

worked for me-cool2

But hey what did she say....sowie...jus getting curious about ur love life since mine's ruined!:tear:

 

^ Welcome to the love life sucks group.

Best to apologise and ask her what could I have caused her to be pissed.

 

Uh that not really a good idea. I know you were probably incredibly nervous, but sending a text message to someone while they were a sleep saying you like them can be seen as a joke by them. I think if you are going to tell someone you like them and is serious about it you should make it more personal at least through a phone call, or face to face.

 

I hope this works out for you!

 

You will get over it very fast. It is just a plan crush. You will eventually find another girl and fall to her.

 

Oh wow .. interesting .. though I think it would've been more sincere had you asked her out directly and perhaps you just might get a clear response rather than some lame reply leaving you to guess.

 

I don't think you should apologize though,
Just tell the truth

 

im not an expert of relationships.. but yes i do think that was one of the worst ways to confess... haha.. its safe but it also demonstrates that your affection for her is still limited.. if you really really really reallly like/love her you would put it all on the line no matter the consequence.. i think the second worst is over the phone... if anything... you should have done it over a coffee/drinks in person.. but thats my mindset...... im shy too =p

 

it's ok we all make mistakes.. what's important is that we learn from them and never try again

 

what was her reaction? did she tell u she likes u too?

 

Too many guesses and our main character wasn't here to elaborate what happened. I will leave this as "To be Continued" until "Iris" returns. Uhmm, I'm confused on the part why she'd had to snap you like that? We heard that she's going oversea, but that doesn't change the way you feel towards her or vice versa. LOL, don't tell me she's playing "hard to get"?

 

Sorry for not responding haha, school has been kicking my ass. As to why she snapped like that? it was around that time of the month for her so that's my reason for it. And to ask if she mutually feels the same way.. well I haven't gotten around to that since our schedules are so hectic at the moment.

She told me some dude asked her to be her gf after she came back, and she rejected him. So there's still hope!

 

Thats good to hear then

Hope is what keeps us going