I think i might like one of my close friends

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by lerandomanon, Oct 8, 2011.

  1. lerandomanon

    lerandomanon New Member

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    So is everyone saying i should be thinking if its worth risking the friendship?
    Its honestly so hard to say theres another younger guy i know who likes her but she wasnt to like happy about that, cause we talk and i can see that she doesnt want to be with that one.
    And when she talks to me about him, i dont wana just be like that another annoying kid :/
    :no:>.<-confused

    Edit: im not in it for sexy time , i really care for her and wish i could just spend lot time with her and stuff you know be cute together
     
  2. sean222

    sean222 Well-Known Member

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    bahaha, sorry but please dont say "be cute together" if thats your goal then forget about it lol. Just inadvertly ask her out, like dont say its a date, but just go watch a movie, the more time you spend chillin' then the tighter the friendship

    maybe nd some sexy time too LMAO nas
     
  3. lerandomanon

    lerandomanon New Member

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    Well i mean my objective is not to just " be cute together" but id enjoy being cute together if we were together
    that really didnt make much sense: P

    but yeah we already do just hang out and ish sometimes in groups sometimes alone
     
  4. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

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    Well if you're going to do something, then do something before she goes to college. Once people hit that level, you meet so many new people you'll lose your chance if you don't do anything about it
     
  5. Hartia

    Hartia Well-Known Member

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    yeah, tbh, you're still in HS, shit happens. you can either force it, or just go with the flow. again, if you ask her, you might nvr talk to her again. but if you dont, then well...what iris said
     
  6. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    Age makes a diff in your case .. come on .. you're still in hs when she's in college next year .. boy vs man .. come on .. get my drift? "cute together" .. lol .. I suggest you stay friend with her; at least you can stay in touch.
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ lol... but if he likes her... like really likes her... then its kinda hard to stay friends is it not?

    just tell her... all or nothing :p
     
  8. Hartia

    Hartia Well-Known Member

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    lol if you just tell tell her.....wait for a good time i guess....

    if she really likes you back, age wouldnt matter. just spend 1 year apart when shes 18 and youre 17 lol. jks

    but look at beibs and selena....it's working out...i think...right?>
     
  9. Bulla

    Bulla Well-Known Member

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    You're probably already "like a brother" to her....

    And if you went out you may see another side to her that you may not like so much (Im sure there are things you dont show her) and if it doesn't work out the friendship usually ends or takes a hit too.
     
  10. Hartia

    Hartia Well-Known Member

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    ^ lol I like Bulla's comment
     
  11. AsianGrin

    AsianGrin Member

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    Only one way to find out ... Ask! If she somewhat has feelings for you too ... I'm sure she'll hint. Forget the age thing ... It's simply a number. Maturity comes from experiences. But if her family's traditional when it comes to thinking ... Then be prepared to fight for her and prove your love. I'm a lot older than my boyfriend ... But surprisingly I'm less stressed being with him than my ex.
     
  12. tvbpopular

    tvbpopular Member

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    Just tell her what's in your heart then see what happens.
     
  13. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    You DO realize that this thread is more than two years old? Chances are, they had already got married, had two kids, divorced, and are no longer speaking to each other, LOL...