If you have a bf/gf/married, do you go out alone with single friend?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by monkeybrain, Oct 5, 2009.

  1. notnice2know

    notnice2know Well-Known Member

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    Alot of people say relationship is trust i agreed, but when jealously kick in it has nothing to do with trust! It is a lot easier to say than when it comes to you imo. And I also reckon if you dont feel jealous than you simply dont love that person enough.

    - ALL MY OPINION-
     
  2. leongal

    leongal Active Member

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    it is very seldom tat i do tat....and so do he....
     
  3. haun

    haun Well-Known Member

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    if you have no freedom after marriage then you married the wrong person.
     
  4. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    it all depends. i agree, relationships are about trust. if there is no trust then it's not rele a relationship that will be successful. i mean i wouldn't rele mind if my gf goes out alone with a single friend, as they are friends so nothing would rele happen. if however, it's going out with a person who is single that they just met along, i guess that would be a different matter as there is a temptation there then. but if it is just with like with their best friend, chances of them getting together are slim as they would have got together before and besides they will know that she is with me.
     
  5. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    how about if your bf/gf is spending time alone with a single friend who likes them and they both know it? what should the bf/gf do?
     
  6. danh90

    danh90 Member

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    I think even though you were married but still let each other has some privacy...give some spaces for them to hang out with friends or single friend. Love is about trust right =]
     
  7. LeoKu

    LeoKu Member

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    depends on wat type of an agreement u hav wif ur other half

    it they are ok, n u are ok ..den its ok xD
     
  8. SamBo

    SamBo Member

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    according to me, its ok.

    according to my gf, its not...
     
  9. an0nymous

    an0nymous Well-Known Member

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    i dont mind my gf going out with guy friends, long as she tell me before hand. She doesnt mind as well for me.
     
  10. tkt138

    tkt138 Active Member

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    your BF/GF/Husband/Wife does not own you. Once ain awhile you should go out with your friend by yourself. You need your own space.
     
  11. xxmasakixx

    xxmasakixx Member

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    i think if u trust that person it will be ok. Especially if they are friends that you know prior your relationship.
     
  12. lilx13aby

    lilx13aby Member

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    i agree if u trust that person its fine. Even though u guys are together, doesnt mean u guys have to do everythign together. You guys still need to live ur own life, and its shouldnt be always just the two of you.
     
  13. ataea

    ataea Member

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    When you say single friend, I guess you mean opposite gender, since I don't think people will have issues with you going out with other girls if you are a girl ...

    I think it really depends on how close you are to that single friend. If you have known them for a while and know that there is no chance for romance, then there shouldn't be a problem, and your gf/bf should be aware of that. However, if you do not know them very well, then your gf/bf has the right to be suspicious.
     
  14. kytlai

    kytlai Member

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    trust and knowing your boundaries!
     
  15. Stressedout

    Stressedout Active Member

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    if you're in a steady relationship where you trust each other I don't see why you must not let your gf/bf/married friend hang out with a singleton
     
  16. JinnyJin

    JinnyJin Member

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    i avoided going out with male friends in the beginning of my relationship and my then boyfriend told me to go hang out with more friends, and most of my friends were guys so i hung out with them, sometimes alone. he called me one day when i was over there, and later on accused me of cheating on him.

    I think there is nothing wrong with it....but becareful of your other half thinking otherwise.
     
  17. yes, you can. marriage/relationship is all built on trust. if they trust you and if you have trust in the realtoinship, thres nothing preventing you from going with ur friends.