Insecure about the way I look

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by gumball, Mar 16, 2007.

  1. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    You know, almost everyone goes through that. It's ok.
    To raise your self esteem, jus think of your good qualities, and/ or focus on something that is good about yourself when you see the ugly side, and just revolve yourself around that, eventually the rest of yourself will be forgotten and youd feel all beautiful again. Cheer up.
     
  2. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    You have to think you are pretty/attractive if every is staring on you... :)
     
  3. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    you have to think that you are pretty/attractive if peoples staring you all the time...
    Because if you are not then they won't look at you :)
     
  4. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    i feel that way all the time.
     
  5. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    If you are not attractive, face it. You were born with that face so live with it. Unless you contemplating a face change.. but before you do, watch Time. Jking.. :D

    I agree that looks are not everything and you should not let it bring you down. There are things you can do to compensate that lack of confidence due to your looks. Be good at sth. Polish your strengths and correct your weaknesses if you can. Compensate with humour/wit.. etc

    It is, however, normal to be concern about your appearance in today's world. Image is important everywhere, all the time. You can always learn to dress up. Find out what you look good in. If you can't decide ask others for opinions. Looks are alot abt packaging. Hair for example, is an important component to one's image. I dun refer to 'good/bad hair day' but more of finding a hairstyle that suits your face/ the occasion. It makes a difference.

    Lastly, be contended. At least you can complimented at times. Many ppl out there dun get any of that. Good luck in building your confidence!
     
  6. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    A lot of people in this world are posers! but its all for fun, don't take it seriously.
    pose if you have to but be real to yourself, if it's confidence your lacking not your image.

    Find something that will help you build yourself up
     
  7. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    if u are actaully pritty ur just being modest.... if ur ugly... just look around u n find someone uglier n just know that ur not the worst thats out there.... theres always someone uglyer..... (beauty is in the eye of the beholder)
     
  8. Retsyo

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    What you need is more confidence in yourself, when you believe in yourself, you will feel a lot better about it. Besides, there are lots of people that are uglier than you are walking around thinking they're so pretty, right? You don't have to feel insecure about yourself. No one is perfect in looks, we all have our unique qualities. And smiling does help, I guess.
     
  9. Duranis

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    dont woirry i was like that too
     
  10. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Dang, this was bump from 07 -_-
     
  11. aslong theres usefull comments it doesnt really matter....
     
  12. jamezco

    jamezco Member

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    must have super loads of confidence... learn to laugh at yourself and you will be fine xD
     
  13. .alias

    .alias Well-Known Member

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    Just remember that you aren't as ugly or anything as you think!
    those stares could be them checking you out ;D
    and put downs are probably just cause tthey're jealous!
     
  14. JackyJack

    JackyJack Active Member

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    I feel insecure about my chin fat or my big lips. :(