nah, if my bf cheated under any circumstances i wouldnt be able to be with him anymore...just wouldnt be the same.
well first of all forget abt the whole forgiving issue and get a full body check report first for both of u... u dunn if that girl he slept with is clean or not... secondly i've been told that guys have erection problem after consuming alcohol... so hmmm... i really doubt he was totally hammered... even if he was he it's really selfish of him to confess to u... sure our parents always tell us that we have to b truthful to people... but that doesn't always work between men and women... us women are just normal human beings... we are not as forgiveful as Jesus Christ... if men want to confess and take the guilt off their back go to a priest!! if they decide to do something stupid then put up with the consequence of having to cover their ass up forever!! no men have the right to hurt a woman just to make themself feel better...!! so in conclusion i don't think i'd forgive him... coz if he doesn't confess i'd b the happiest woman on earth... but he chose to take away my happiness to make himself less guilty... i'd dump the whimp!!!!
From my experience I've always knew what I was doing when I was either drunk or doing some type of drug/s to a resonable extent so no, it's not an excuse. Well except for my very first times; they were a bit blurry..
been there done that. same situation, except i cheated on my gf. "drunk," aka "i want to get laid" is pretty much not an excuse. if you forgiven him, don't you ever dare mention it to him or doubt his integrity. my ex gf used to tell me she forgives me, but she keeps bringing up that i had sex with another girl BLAH BLAH BLAH. there are a couple of reasons why he would get "drunk" and go hump another girl. 1. you're not giving him what he wants 2. you're not giving him space 3. you suck at cooking. haha jk. but to be honest, don't forgive him, it'll hurt you and hurt him at the same time. how? because a girl will never forget what a man does, especially when it comes to infedelity. and when you can't forget, you can't really forgive. you should take a break, and go get a rebound boy and give him a taste of his own medicine. make him appreciate your loyalty and integrity -clapclap
If it did happen we would all like to forgive, but you can't forget things like those that easily. Yes, you did say you forgive him/her, but when you get into fights the thought of him/her cheating on you from the past and had sex with someone else just makes the situation worse. It'll always come back to you. You won't stop thinking about it. You have lost the trust and if he/she ever wanted to go out with their friends again you won't trust them as much as you did before. When worst comes to worst you start to call where ever he or she is, you’ll start questioning them. The relationship just won’t be the same anymore.>.<
the simple answer is, think of it this way, the girl/guy you are dating got drunk and cheat on you, how will you feel? doink! doink!
how abt a free pass to cheat 10 time?? each time u cheat u get a stamp... let's c who's the first one to get 10 stamps...
i don't think being too drunk is an excuse to cheat. What will he think if you did the same thing? You will see the double standard here. I think you should forgive him though, because he confessed it to you. Otherwise you would have know idea. So forgive him if you can think pass that little one night stand he had.
basically anything is a good excuse for the cheater ... he can just say she raped me ... but there is no such thing as "good excuse" for the one that's been cheated on ... it's just the matter of whether u love him enough to forgive him this time knowing there'll b a 2nd time and 3rd time and so on... -shrug if u choose to forgive him u'll need to b prepaired...
yes it is an excuse. If this happens to me, sorry for that guy the relationship wont last even i forgive him. Once a cheater always a cheater. I mean u wont go home with her n have sex if u dont like her/attracted to her before u get drunk.
This is a tricky question. I mean, he has a good virtue: by confessing and being honest. But of course, he equally wronged by having sex with another chick. Drunkness shouldn't be an excuse. I think it all comes down to how much he means to you and also how genuine of a guy he is.
Is he really drunk? or THINK he is drunk? There is a different, dont give yourself a reason to justify your decision. Hey, be wise!
hahaha damn that was pretty shady... but hey being drunk doesn't mean you're planning to get laid... it can just happen unexpectedly.. like you go into the grocery store to buy milk and unexpectedly come out with 5 watermelons...
