kekeke i think You also have to take a look at the backside of the coin maybe he is only a selfish bastard who confesses to ask for forgiveness to calm his bad conscience i think it´s no excuse, if it was it´s like going to the doc and take a receipt to cheat on ur gf/bf lol the whole world would be drunk and i should get some booze shares to make a fortune out of it lol
one a cheater always a cheater is right, why be with someone that has disrespected you? when you can start over with someone else without having that pain hanging over you? you deserve better, it is not ok for him to cheat on you! I know you love him but it will be better to end it before you get hurt again
Drunk ? We see such scenes in movies. In real life, being drunk involves vomitting, and sleeping on the first available flat surface. Very seldom does it involve sex !!
for guys..if they are drunk...most of the time..they can't get it up! for gurls...there is NO EXCUSE! its over!
alcohol is no excuse to cheat. I remember being drunk and the only thing i think about is getting some sleep.
y tell her if she's just gonna break up with u? i'm completely okay with being a bit deceitful... we don't have to be like when we were kids and tell our mommy's everything, lolll
Iono for me I would NEVER would forgive him. He did it drunk or not. End of story. But the thing is if I never really loved him I wouldn't even be his gf. And being a gf you should forgive no matter what they do. Well it doesn't matter since i'm not in that situation yet. >.<
If it wasn't in his mind, he wouldn't do it do when he is drunk. He WILL do it again. Trust me, next time u might not know.
well it depends if you can get over it yourself. if you think u can look past it and continue the relationship, then try it. but make sure u think it through because wahts to prevent him from doing it again.. i dont think there are ever excuses for cheating. even when you're drunk you're still about somewhate aware of your surroundings
Getting drunk is not an excuse to cheat. He still knows what he is doing. He knows that he is having sex with someone else. He is just so high and drunk that he does not think of the consequences after having sex with another girl. But still, love and sex is 2 different things even tho most girls won't accept. girls will think their bf is not 100% to them if their bf have sex with someone else. Before defining Cheat, make sure we all know the feelings of LUST/LOVE. These 2 feelings can be mess up. Some relationships are going for love but it turns out to be lust. As long as the bf is treating the girl nice and he doesn't leave mess around, then it's fine.
old thread lol ;o but im with the girl that started this thread ... im a forgiving type and will probably give him another chance because he came to me first without me finding out from someone else ... i think that's worse ;x of course ... i would be doubtful about him getting hammered while drinking with his buddies again
These situations depend on the person. U go by how u feel...long term relationships have struggles and u will have to work through things..sometimes u have to make sacrifices. How much does the relationship mean to u..plus if u can't deal iwth it u can always end the relationship later on Being drunk is an excuse..but not a reason. Someone else said that u don't think on the consequences and that's very true..and if u don't think of the consequences how are u going to be able to determine what is right and what is wrong..u simply can't. Once the conscious(ego) is weakened the unconscious(id) can creep up and the id works purely on a pleasure principle, it doens't give a crap about anyone else..to anyone who's wondering what im on about it's some psyc. SO they would probably know what they are doing..but truhfully don;t know any better at that moment in time..alternatively u can have a really strong impulse (id)and jsut do something...but usually the moral principles of society will stop ppl..once again the alcohol can inhibit that..in the end it's up to u and how u feel
Don't forgive him, instead date me! I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. J/k but serisously i don't smoke, drink, or do drugs. Forgive the man, make him quit drinking. Problem solved. The only time he is allowed to drink if u do lt im, is at your house, or his (with your presence.) Then nothing will ever happen again, maybe. Or maybe I'm just being naive. It's up to you. It's your love. You know him better than anyone here, so you make the call.
Of course it's not ok he's suck a jerk. By forgiving him you are allowing him to walk over u time and time again
First, he shouldn't drink and get drunk. Do you want to have a relationship with someone like this in a long run? Or did you drive him nuts until he feel he need more drinks than he can handle? Secondly, once a cheater always a cheater... However, if this event happen before he met you, then this can probably be forgiven. However, since he already started a relationship with you, then I don't think it is acceptable. I suspect this event will likely to happen again in the future...
