Here's the dilemna I have with this senserio. The guy obviously did wrong by cheating and it was with the influence of alcohol. However he was man enough to admit his wrong doings and confront his g/f about it. Let me tell you, not many people will do such a thing. We're all human...do we make mistakes? Yes...but sending a relationship to death row even though the person who made the mistake plead guilty when there was no case on him. Do you call him stubborn, dumb or worse off a fool? I do believe that stating that you're drunk doesn't change the fact that you cheated....however confronting the person who had no suspicion of such an incident of your wrong doings....that's a man. Are we all honestly going to throw stones at a guy who admited he cheated under the influence of alcohol? Maybe everyone here's an angel expect for me. I've made mistakes...I admit it. I got a 2nd chance....in some cases I got a 3rd one. I really think that the guy coming forward is a huge step. I think if the girl forgives the guy, their relationship will become much stronger.
Quite frankly, I've been drunk a few times and I still managed to keep my head and remember that I girlfriend. See, thing is that a girl gets drunk, she gets touchy feely if she thinks the guy is single and the guy (being the horndog that he is) cannot resist. Quite frankly, being drunk is not an excuse for cheating.
Its gonna happen again. If you forgive him straight out like that you might as well give him permission to cheat on him.
I have to agree that for the most part the answer would be no, why would he get hammered in the first place, why go home with the girl second. I will give the guy a few props for telling you about it, but you can't take it easy on him, he wouldn't if you did it, you have to look at it that way because he might tell himeself that he would but he would hold it over you and pretty much give him free reign of what he wants to do. Its up to you on what you choose to do, but don't take it easy on him, talk to him and let him know how you feel and what it means to you. Sure you can be forgiving, but don't let him run over you on this
well if that person really loved you he would be getting drunk and getting in a bed with a person right?
hah... true, he does not need to confess... but look, anyone can play the confession and work it to his advantage... i'd give him the boot... sorry! it's like the chinese saying, YI CI BU ZONG, BAI CI BU YONG
well, i guess it all depends on how much u love that person. if u really love him then you shoud trust him that wen he says he does only love u and dat didnt mean anything then u should trust and give him another chance, but if u just can't get over the fact that he has done that with sum other girl before then u should just give it a break for a while after a while if he still cares for u and love then finally u would still be together agen also u should respect the fact that he confessed to u before and was being honest that he has dont it and had a 'reason' for it den u should give him a chance coz if he did do it and he was aware with wot he was doin at that time then he wouldnt of told ya and just act lyk nuffink happened. if he does it agen with the same reason then u should start finking if hes doing it because he wants to try other girls.
