sure.. cause now im still single.. haha... but after sometime.. believe me.. u sure found out tat... couple would be better again..lol..
When I was still single, I experienced lots of freedom. I felt that I could easily focus on my studies, concentrate on my hobbies and interests, hang out with my friends and family, and live out a life to satisfy myself in every aspect. But at the time, I wondered what it'd be like to be in a relationship, because I felt lonely and I didn't have anyone to love. I felt so alone whenever I saw couples walk hand-in-hand in the streets or whenever I witnessed a public display of affection between two lovers, and I would feel terribly jealous. I was depressed because I didn't have a boyfriend like some of my other friends had. However, I was lucky enough to have found a guy and he recently became my boyfriend. So now, much of my thoughts are on him and I find myself constantly thinking about how I can please him and make him feel happy, and furthermore, how we can grow deeper and stronger in our relationship. I feel as though I have a desire to talk with him everyday, and I feel obligated to call him and/or message him online every evening. I basically feel as though I need to remain committed to him; otherwise, I'd fear that he'd lose interest in me if we don't talk for a long time. I'd always feel a sudden urge to hear his voice or to see his face. But sometimes, when I think back to my life of being single, I remember how free I was - being able to kill time by doing the casual things I loved - like hanging out with my other single friends and pigging out in fast-food restaurants or going ice-skating. Of course, I can still do many of these activities now, but in the midst of all this, he would always pop up into my mind and I would feel like calling him up and seeing what he was doing and how he was. And most of all, being single has one important advantage - having time to yourself to set and accomplish goals that build up your own character and self-esteem. While I was single, I felt that I could devote lots of time to myself and experience a sense of freedom - to spend money on yourself, to treat yourself out to your favorite restaurant and stuff yourself with your favorite foods, to do the things you've set out for yourself to do on your own. I miss that. On the other hand, it feels good to be in a relationship when you know you can love a particular person and feel loved by him/her at the same time, and you can spend lots of time with your significant other just enjoying each other's presence. It feels good to be in love. It depends on what stage of life you're more comfortable with at this time. If you want to experience freedom from obligation and focus primarily on the things you enjoy most and want to do for yourself, being single has its advantages. However, if you're ready to find a significant other and dive straight into the love and dating scene, being in a relationship has its advantages as well. But come to think of it, love is mysterious and often comes at unexpected times, so be prepared to know what you're up for when you pursue a serious relationship with someone.
its been 3 years since my last gf. its great. im tired of late night convos. and i could go clubbin and meet gurls that only last for the night. its easier for my wallet too. dun have to pay doubles on trips and expensive dinners. but of course, just like anybody else, its great to have some1 for the holidays
There's ups and downs. Freedom is one of it. You can do anything you want whenever you want without having to prioritize your partner. But being in a relationship is of course good as well. Tere's always someone there when you need someone. I guess it depends on your actual preference.
Well I think being single isnt bad nor good xD! Depends what type of person you are.. Being Single gives you a free feeling but when you rlly want someone by your side you will feel that being single isnt dat good! Anyway non-singles and singles enjoy their lives just differently =]
I agree that staying single gives you freedom, because you can do what you want. Personally i think that it might be annoying that the person next to you (your bf/gf) kept on nagging you like your mum does. However it's good to find a gf/bf so you won't be bored and if your are unhappy u can tell them, but sometimes they get annoyed when they hear u whine or moan all the time and as people say there are always ups and downs to make a balance.
