mayb thgs are not as complicated as u think, he cud b jux lookin for a frd to hangout . as long as u two are comfortable with each other wen goin out then its totally fine! u dun hv to worry too much bout if he likes me or if i wud send him signals in a wrong way.....time can tell! jux enjoy the moment ! its always good to hv a company!
ROFLMAO. She tryin hook da guy going under the pretense of " friends" ... Look who is a : little filthy perv ? Setting up a meeting with people on da net. for all we noe, u could be a psycho pedofile, sex manic, kidnapper, human trafficker, murderer, etc, etc. haha
if its a horny company dat she's lookin for, then jux go for sex partner / one nite stand, y bother being frds in the first place? pretense is jux a waste of time!
HEYYYY stop talking about my haircut or u WILL end up like the bear on ur avy yeah!? Anyway, I am not going to meet up with him tonight anymore... I don't feel safe to walk home anymore... and he "cant" bring me home on a weekday because he has to work the next day... So too bad... But something happened... yesterday, when we were talking on the phone he told me he missed me I dont know whether its a joke or not but i was just like HAHAHAHAHAHA and said dont say that.... =/ weird response I know... but thats the best I could think of at that moment... :$ And I just a few moments later he said I miss u again in korean and I pretended not to understand that... What am I gonna do... ?
u either accept / hit back / or ignore? =) mayb some syd ppl here are just "over friendly" lol btw, u could always move out =D since ur place isn't the most "public transport friendly" not that many places are here in syd... stupid iemma and his stupid transport ><
But im not sure what he means by saying I miss you... i mean what if he doesnt mean in that way i dont knowwww... what if hes joking... Its too soon for me... too fast... I need to get to know him better before I can say anything... Cant I keep on acting stupid? =/
He misses you = he's thinking about u alot and has really enjoyed all your together time and hrmms.. hes starting to get addicted to u xD (devop some beyond friendship feelings) Him saying that he misses you also keeps him safe from rejection.... coz yeh.. he can pretend that it was a joke, OR he can just say that missing is missing and nothing more =O (simply misses having your company) ..hehe, anyways.. looks like this is going to turn into mind games between you and him (especially if u do the act dumb and pretend not to know thing) - btw, theres nothing wrong with mind games and it can be kinda fun at times, but yeh..be prepared for alot of misunderstandings and and incomplete truths xD PS. I could possibly be completely wrong since I don't dont have any primary/first hand information and I have no background on the peoples involved xD Good luck though. oh also, if u wanna know if he likes u more than a friend, call him out, but also get another friend to go with u, and see how he acts. =X
lol no need to act dear... -innocent... -lol yo you need to make up your damn mind n give te guy the right response..
Rule No.1: girls can b "just friends" with guys... but guys can't b "just friends" with girls... if u keep hanging out with him... sooner or later he'll hit on u... but if u enjoy the attention then y not keep hanging out... if u don't... then tell him to back off...
Thanks guyz =) AAAAH I AM CONFUSED!!! I cant make up my mind in a day... for gods sake... 2 dinners only How can I give him the "right response" if I dont know shieeet.... AND WTH is the right response anyway... I mean I think of him sometimes but its not like I am in love with him k? And I know myself... Shit like this happened before..hang out with the guy, get a bit closer (dont mean physically), late night phone calls, starting to get really interested in eachother... then I think I like tha guy but when things are getting too serious (almost relationship) I just back out and see all negative things in him =/ I dont know why... maybe just not ready for commitment yet or maybe dont like the guy enough... This is gettin' complicated I just wanted to hang out with him and have fun....
The safest and most conservative way is to not meet up with him again. Just break contact with him. You will lose nothing.
@Angie: I know how you are feeling. Believe me, I have been there. On one hand, you find his company enjoyable and you want to keep enjoying that company of his. You feel flattered by his attention and his implied attraction to you. On the other hand, you feel guilty that you might be leading him on and it'll be 'morally wrong' in the event you don't end up liking him. But my advice is if you like his company; just continue going out with him.. but do drop hints that you just wanna be friends at the moment.
