Is it ok?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by MissCheekS, May 19, 2007.

  1. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Right response?

    This may sound passé but drop hints like for example, you can pretend to tell him about a fictional guy hitting on you.
    Then you can tell him that you rejected the guy coz you don't wanna be in a relationship at the moment; enjoying the single life and stuffs like dat.
    I am sure he'll get the hint if he's not dumb.
     
  2. guys can be just friends with a girl -er but i mean if they wanna just hang out.. then having dinner would not give the right impression..
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^I haf dinner with my guy friends (one on one) all the time.
     
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  5. heaven

    heaven Well-Known Member

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    Guys can't be friends with pretty girls =P (or girls that they find attractive, [personality, looks] & also there has to be no barriers [distance, age])

    If you're going to give hints..then hrmmmm xD, What if he doesn't get it ? What if he's the type who needs to be told specifically, and things need to be made clear (like me - I hate to assume[even if the hints are super obvious] coz theres alot of room for misunderstandings/misinterpretation).

    BTW, has the guy ever asked you "do u have a bf? /are u seeing anyone/ something similar to those questions?"
     
  6. don

    don ello

    he is going for you angie.....i really think it's not a joke and he's saying it for real...i don't say i miss you to a girl that i've only had 2 dinners with
     
  7. hmmmm... when a guy n a girl "hang out" one on one it's a date... u don't just date ur fd for no reason -_-2
     
  8. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Like buddies
     
  9. oh crap... looks like I fell into a trap... -ann


    lol either way.. MissAngie all by her lonely self up in sydney... jus go holla at the guy n get in between the sheets..
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    There is a barrier... the language one.. his english is not too good... we sometimes misunderstand eachother because we have different culture background... and there is gonna be the distance barrier too in a few months...

    He knows I am not seeing anyone and I know hes not seeing anyone either...

    Ecko: I agree I believe guys and girls can be friend if they know eachother for a long time...

    Don: in that case... what should I do If i dont know what i want... what would be ur advise... I dont want to commit myself to anyone yet...and I hardly know the guy... I mean I dont have feelings for him now but not sure if that can change... can i just tell him?
     
  11. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    u c. angie got herself in trouble. even if the guy gets the hint ur just wanna be friends, he is gonna think he can change u. so he will continue until u say yes.

    lol
     
  12. yea so no more dinners... simple as that...
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Erm... i dont think hes that kinda guy and i am not that kinda girl too...
    When u have sex or whatever ur a couple and i am so not ready for that...
     
  14. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    or tease him a little so he makes a move (e.g. when he takes out his little pecker), and then wham, tell him to f off.
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    When we hang out... one on one... it doesnt really feels like a date...?

    adrian: ur evilll!
     
  16. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    now u find out? hehe.

    I'm guy, so I noe y he is sticking around :}
     
  17. ahhh just ignore him already n quit making up stories like he''s interested in you... -lol
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    -unsure ? right?
    Anyway, I am surely not meeting up with him this week anymore so we will see...

    adrianc: thats what my brother says too but... does that mean I can never become friends with new guys I meet in Sydney?
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    well i don't see no reason to not meet up with him...
    just do wat u guys do normally, on a less regular basis =)
    im sure he'd get the idea then

    sydney has heaps of nice guys! =P
    cept u won't meet me >< lol
     
  20. for all we know... this guy may not even exist... -whistle