Is it wrong to date your bestfriend ex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by tcckent, May 19, 2007.

  1. kakenx

    kakenx Well-Known Member

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    It depends on different things... Like why did ur friend break up with him/her in the first place.. how long have they been apart... what would ur friend think of it (u should ask ur friend what he/she thinks. Don't make it obvious that it's urself doing it lol) and it also depends on urself... if u think it's wrong than it's wrong, but if u think there's nothing wrong than there's nothing wrong... difference between being liberal and conservative IMO lol!
     
  2. STD

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    Its wrong because if it doesnt work out you lose a gf and a bestfriend
     
  3. girls can never b friends with their ex... even if they said they r totally over the guy he would still screw up her emotions and if she keeps talking to the ex there will always b a possibility of getting back in her mind whether or not she really wanted to... so dating ur best fd's ex isn't really a good idea since there'll b a lot of chances for them to meet
     
  4. Aya-chan

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    it depends on the circumstances, but in general the cardinal rule is no... just ask Denise Richards and Heather Locklear
     
  5. dreyvii

    dreyvii Well-Known Member

    Personally, I feel that you should think whether or not the guy is really worth taking the risk of losing your best friend in the process. If he's really the one, then have a good chat with your bestfriend to see how she feels about the breakup and to gain "permission". I don't see the point in losing a bestfriend and gaining a boyfriend...boyfriends might not last, but most friends are forever.
     
  6. pingpong

    pingpong Well-Known Member

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    I think it is wrong to date your best friend's ex because it will ruin your friendship with your best friend. If it was just a normal friend, then it's alright I guess.
     
  7. gogo123

    gogo123 Well-Known Member

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    Are you a guy or girl? For guys there is an unwritten rule which you may know, which is to never date your good friend's ex.
     
  8. wats_blue

    wats_blue Well-Known Member

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    Well personally I don't think it's wrong as such, but it would be very awkward for you to interact with your best friend I guess...but it does depends on the situation...

    sorry for being very vague...-shrug
     
  9. joveaurora

    joveaurora Active Member

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    why would anyone kiss and or sleep with someone their best friend already kiss or slept with. I never understood it. I think its a no no no. then again there are always exceptions. I for one would Not do so and would mind never much if my friend dates my ex.
     
  10. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    its not wrong if u both like each other..however it will be weird n awkward..and
    its one them 'rule' things u dont do..u mite end up losing ya best friend..
     
  11. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    It just depends entirely on how your best friend would look at it, and if your best fren is not cool with it; then you'll have to decide whether you value ur friendship more or ur potential love.
     
  12. waikitfire

    waikitfire Well-Known Member

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    what is both of them valueable ??????
    i wonder how u going to settle it.
     
  13. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    That's why u can never be greedy. I'd prolly pick my best fren.
     
  14. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    ^ thats the spirit...bf's come and go but gf's dont -hug
     
  15. dreyvii

    dreyvii Well-Known Member

    YUP! Totally agree!
     
  16. j_ayumi

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    i don't think its wrong to date your bestmate's ex coz they are in the "past tense" already!
     
  17. shy31279girl

    shy31279girl Well-Known Member

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    I don't think it's wrong but it's kind of sick
     
  18. lidool.tk

    lidool.tk Active Member

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    if your bestie doesnt mind, then i guess that its alright..
     
  19. narutokun

    narutokun Well-Known Member

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    yes, if dey r ur bestfriend den dont. dare r plenty of fishes in da sea
     
  20. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    it's not wrong cuz if you got feelings for someone nobody can tell you if feelings are right or wrong...but you might risk to lose 2 friendships if it doesnt work out...