Is sex really so important?

Unless it's for religious reasons, I don't think 'saving' yourself for that 'special' someone is really worth it. I, mean, I don't think what you're doing is as important as who you're doing it with.

If you lose your virginity, first kiss, etc. with someone you really don't care too much about -- it's not a big deal. You just won't remember it, really. Whereas the first kiss or the first time with someone you really love will be etched forever.

Well, I mean at least thats what I think.
But then again, who am I to judge? The first person I gave all my firsts to was someone I was madly in love with at the time. So maybe I was just lucky? I was also prettty young too -- 14.

 

sex isnt important at all! ive never had to use it to win over a guy's heart... i was with my ex for 3 yrs without him ever pressuring me to do it. true love means giving each other freedom of choice... with no pressure

 

sex is not really important at first..but if u khnow that ur relationship will turn to a wedding then u should try first what u have

 

I mean to most people now sex is just sex, like i mention earlier. The generation now its so much different then it was i mean like 1999-2004 it was alrite and now its all about sex. you see lil kids at the age of 15 just doing it for what sense dono. just for pleasure. its true if a guy is pressuring to have sex then its not worth it. Having sex to keep someone is stupid so i dono. its really base on the couple if sex is important. sex is a another form of communication, at a whole diffrent level -rolleyes

 

Sex is very important for a relationship to survive. Ask anyone who's dated more than one person. Without it, you feel the lack of intimacy in the relationship, which in turn can affect your feelings in the long run. I just broke off a relationship with a great girl simply because during the 7 months we dated, we made love ONCE. I tried, I waited patiently, I told her she was gorgeous but she was always afraid of it because she hated her "naked" self.

Sure, kissing is good and all, but what differs a romantic relationship from being simply a "you're my girlfriend/boyfriend" relationship is the ability to be intimate with said person.

Point is, whether you like the sound of it or not, making love is Goddamned important. Why do you think tons of marriages fail? Lack of sex. Sad, but true.

 

true story, sex is important. just like girls like name brand bags and etc. Us men like some good sex from time to time...-noclue

 

man what u guys/girl expecting.. man This is what Year 2007 i think most ppl will have sex b4 they marry..

Put you in a situation, if you 18yr old and meet a girl and with her for 4yr, dont tell me you haven't have any sex. (if this is true i found it so unnormal)

Secondly you guys expect your wife would be your first one. I think u guys expect too much..

 

sex is always important

 

Just remember that boys and girls: you have only be a virgin for once in your life, if you lose your purity, there is no turning back, no regrets.

 

Would love to see that face -cool

 

Important but not top priority i suppose

I assume that people who have sex should be mature and responsible.
there are risks of pregnacy or STD because sadly those things happen all the time. '

 

it's impt if ur doing it with the right person and if it feels right...it would just be a regret if couples hav sex just to save the relationship or just cuz u can say u've done it...cuz that's just lame, stupid and nothing to be proud of...

 

sex is important, but the real understanding between the relationship is more important ...

 

Yes. It's important to built up a deeper understanding between couple

 

sex is just another way of communication ;P

 

yup sex is important...i think now adays..because u don'T really have time now to just sit down under candlelight and actually plan things out..it would be great..but i think its just another way of communicating..but with ur body

 

sex is important. but only if both really want to do it. age matters too

 

Sonja: Sex without love is an empty experience!
Boris: Yes, but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best!

-- Woody Allen (Love and Death)

 

good sex is the root of a good relationship.
for men, lovew is great but sex is more important

 

Sex is important in a relationship (mother nature built us for it as a natural element) and your views on it are based on good morals. Don't ever change it. Girls like you are rare. Telling guys that you are a virgin I think is a wonderful filter from separating the men from the boys. Be glad that the guys are running away after you tell them and not after you have done it with them as most "loose girls will have experienced and hide the emotional pain. Saving yourself takes great insight and discipline. Stick to your principles and beliefs, thats what makes great people. I wish you luck in your endeavors.