just looking for any advice

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by angelkiller, Feb 22, 2007.

  1. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    anything that you havent gotten and she give u no response for more then 2 months forget it might as well waste your time on some other girl
     
  2. sansan_55

    sansan_55 Member

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    Show her what's hiding under your manhood! FTW
     
  3. mindyoox3

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    well, she might liek you, cuz im in the same situation but im the gurl haha but the person i like and likes me back , we like best friends and he asked if i wanted a bf and i said no cuz idk.. im chinese.. im too caught up in school work .. even though i dont get 100s on every test haha

    she might like you =] but then again idk x-x
     
  4. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    what are you doing here on the forums!! go get her, at least you wont spend the rest of your life wondering
     
  5. angelkiller

    angelkiller Member

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    small little update

    recently i've been talking to her alot more now, occasionally after school i walk with her although her cousins there, online alot still couple hrs quite a few days of the week.

    There was a day walking home from school with her, when her cousin likes to be nosy, starts tryin to get us together and we end up jus walking and looking kinda embarressed. That night we spoke to each other online and we talked about our feelings to one another. I told her i still liked her alot and she replied 'I do like you in a different way'. This kinda made me unhappy for the next two days, when she brings it up again and tels me she has thought about it & reveals that she does like me *w00t*. Then it lead on to her thinking about it again and saying she rele isnt too sure. She jus explains that she does think about me and her alot but because of our GCSE's coming up it rele isnt a good time, which i did agree on. Then after that she is actually going on holiday for the summer in HK :( so i might be waiting, but i told her i was willing to do it. So, so far its like that. We mite do something after say a revision session this easter but we'l see if we have time.

    so right now i'm jus hopeful of things

    btw thnx again guys for ne comments/replies
     
  6. Wilme

    Wilme Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, don't stay in the friends zone. Once she's established you as a friend, it's going to be very hard to get out of it. Maybe not talk to her for a bit and see if she starts to contact you instead.
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Okay, my advise as a girl would be.... don't act too available... don't tell her u like her untill u are 100% sure ur not just a friend she likes to hang out with... but u can and flirt with her and tease her... sometimes we are like guys... no fun if the guys asks u out instantly... you have to make her wonder a little too... it makes us want u more hehe... Also don't be too sweet or else she'll treat u like ur her brother... and we do not want that to happen?!
    Whatever you do don't look or sound desperate... nothing is more unattractive then a desperate guy... If u show a bit less interest in her she will be wondering... and longing for your company and be waiting by her computer for u to come online :p

    I repeat: " DESPERATE GUYS ARE UNATTRACTIVE"

    "the chase is better than the catch"
    Goodluck!
     
  8. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    If you said she'll think about it.. (after talking to her for 1.5 years already)
    Thats means there's another guy involved. Else she doesn't like you enough.
     
  9. angelkiller

    angelkiller Member

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    wel its more that i reckon she does like me but jus wants to make sure this is what she wants.

    also when we do speak to each other not online, it tends to b me leaving school early and her and her cousin will eventually see me, catch up to talk or wait for me to get to her.
     
  10. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    she's just waiting for a bigger fish, your the small one in her hand and she doesn't know if she should let you go.You like a life saver or a back up....
     
  11. yorie

    yorie Well-Known Member

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    well tis kind of gal have many possibilities,it could b she dun likes u but wanna keep u bside as like having lot of ppl likes,or it could be she likes u n just wana b fren only 1st,or she really deno understand wat u trying to do.....