Long distance relationship

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Natsu, Jul 31, 2008.

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  1. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

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    me too. tired out. didnt even go the gym all week
     
    #121 adrianc, Nov 29, 2008
  2. aznacurarsx

    aznacurarsx Active Member

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    lolz i am a long distance relationship person and none of them work for me when their only 2 hrs away.. sigh...
     
    #122 aznacurarsx, Jan 21, 2009
  3. giro

    giro New Member

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    Not for me anymore

    I tried but it doesnt work. It has been the second time for me. The first one lasted one year, and the second one lasted 2 years.

    Well prepare yourself for bad news if you cannot find them.
    Usually they are hiding something.
     
    #123 giro, Jan 21, 2009
  4. Saniwa

    Saniwa Member

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    1 out of 10 this kind of relationship might have worked. But there'll be lots of efforts put more than non long distance one. And usually, there'll be another person who will replace you in your loved one's heart -- vice versa.

    ~M
     
    #124 Saniwa, Jan 25, 2009
  5. olivertwist

    olivertwist Active Member

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    from personal experience long distance will never work.. its the lack of physical contact and lack of sex and time difference and having to spend ur time by the computer instead of out with friends
     
    #125 olivertwist, Jan 26, 2009
  6. kinyeow1031

    kinyeow1031 Member

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    ask some good friends.
     
    #126 kinyeow1031, Jan 29, 2009
  7. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    LD relationships wont work for #1 and #3. #3 maybe. I would do it for #3 if I really cared about the relationship.
     
    #127 vangirl86, Jan 29, 2009
  8. saya_l

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    i think it depends on how much i like this person and if i think its more than just fling.
    if i feel that theres something more to the relationship, reason for commitment then ill probably give it a try.
    also, trust is another factor.
     
    #128 saya_l, Jan 31, 2009
  9. TVadi

    TVadi Well-Known Member

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    distance relationship never works out
     
    #129 TVadi, Jan 31, 2009
  10. marron

    marron Well-Known Member

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    they work, of course they do.
    especially if u were with this person for a longer period and you love each other.
    (c) it's only one year, besides that u can always see each other during vacations etc. <3
     
    #130 marron, Feb 1, 2009
  11. tofie

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    if you're both mature and committed about the relationship, then it can work in the beginning. but in the end, one person will have to move so that both an be together. otherwise, it won't last.
     
    #131 tofie, Feb 1, 2009
  12. random008

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    not much faith in LDR, they never seem to turn out well.
     
    #132 random008, Feb 2, 2009
  13. J-joey

    J-joey Member

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    Long distance relationship lacks a lot of the security bit, sure you can just keep saying you trust your partner but in the end it always results in a little doubt. THere are not many good turn outs, but its not completely impossible.

    Lol - boyfriends/girlfriends that come back from overseas at start of TVB series never have good endings :p
     
    #133 J-joey, Feb 3, 2009
  14. the_laughing_man

    the_laughing_man Well-Known Member

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    If I fell in love i'd weigh up my options and if it's a country I liked move there! If not i'd see if she wanted to move here.
     
    #134 the_laughing_man, Feb 18, 2009
  15. lichie_ng

    lichie_ng New Member

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    a good way would be to stay friends or just go and be with that person...
    i can't say anything cuz i have a crush on my friend and plan to tell him ASAP but as i will go on exchange to study soon enough... i'm hesitating on whether to tell him or not...
     
    #135 lichie_ng, Feb 18, 2009
  16. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    -bowroflarms-bowroflarms-bowroflarms Try danned123, he/she's frequently trying to hook up with one of us in the chatbox
     
    #136 Flames, Feb 19, 2009
  17. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

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    try danned123, heard shes looking for someone
     
    #137 Natsu, Feb 19, 2009
  18. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Are you looking for guys or girls or both ^^
     
    #138 AC0110, Feb 19, 2009
  19. Crossbone

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    I guess it depends on the both of them...you'll need lots of effort to keep this kind of relationship especially the different timezone for the both of them...for me i dont think it would work out in a long distance relationship...i did wanted to court a girl in australia whereby im in uk....she used to be my ex...but how can u manage the time difference of 10-11 hours? <_<

    however it did work for my bro...he's with this girl when the girl is at the age of 16...my bro went oversea for studies for 3 years, just last year they got married after my bro grad...now the girl is 25...just couldnt imagine how long they both were together...did broke up once when the girl went to college...really respect this kinda relationship...but sadly it just didnt happen to me -_-2
     
    #139 Crossbone, Feb 19, 2009
  20. 111111

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    it's very tough and not everyone is able to maintain it :)
     
    #140 111111, Feb 22, 2009
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