met a girl on a cruise back when i was in middle/high school. but she lived in canada, and i live in the us. it did last for a couple of years, but the communication started to slow down, and we mutually broke it off. no feelings hurt though.
I've never but i got a friend that had that happen to her. Not always happen, but they kept in touch and now their planning to getmarry. I guess what really matters is if they really love and care for each other. distance is nothing if they truely love each other .
I always question the failure of long distance relationship. Do they fail because you are deprived of lust? If so, then what is the purpose of love. Seems like sex is the answer for all of these and its rather sad.
I vote it end up badly most of the time. It just so difficult to know what the other party think even when they are infront of you.
I personally avoid long distance relationships like the plague. They just dont work out, they almost always fall apart because of the distance. There isn't that everyday contact that you would get if they lived near by.
* much calling... * much chatting.. and in the end with much efford in it..it will break up...-censored
dis yr is my last yr here in canada, i'm leaving off 2 da states for 3-4yrs for skool..iono wuh i'm gunna do aswell, been with my girl for 2yrs alreadi
depends on the person. long distance relations will end unless u r together. Try to move into the same city if at all possible.
hmm from my experience, I think long distance is worth a try if people are planning to be together in the future. So basically, if it all leads somewhere then its worth a shot. How long it lasts really depends on the people themselves and how good they are with relationships. Some people who live in the same city only see each other only once a week for a few hours. Some live close by each other but their relationship dies anyway. I'm in a long distance and I talk to my girlfriend everyday email, msn and on the phone or Skype video conference and its working great. It can be hard sometimes but it's not something that I would run away from simply because its difficult. I think in my mind that all relationships are difficult in general, if it's not long distance issues then it would be something else. Short term is ok, long term is another thing.
pretty much i agree with the people that say that long distance takes a lot of effort, time, and money from both parties. if you both really like each other and put the effort into it, it'll work. if not, well it just ends...
long distance relationships don't work. they just don't. no matter how optimistic you are about it at first, they don't end up working.
too much temptation in LDRs. you need alot of self control and u need to be very loyal to your bf/gf definately wont recommend doing it
i don't believe in long distance relationships either. having said that, i have a friend ... met, dated a couple of years, guy moved back and they are still going strong (or as far as i know). no idea what their plans are ...
Long distance relationship is difficult ... but it can be worked out ... you just have to trust each other...
i will soon... but i'm really scare that he will loose feeling for me. =( sigh** everything is going to change soon. I can't seen him soon, thinking like that.. already make me really sad.
All my relationships were long distance... one lasted for 2 months, another for 2 years and the current one... about 4 months and going strong. It really depends on your situation and his/hers as well. Where you stand in your career, your plans, your age... if you cannot envision a future with your other half, there's not much point to it. On the other hand, if your situation allows you to make thing happen, then go for it...
and by the way... in my opinion... being sad, missing ur partner... all those are secondary to the relationship. If you cannot see those as just little humps you have to go through, you might not be 'long distance' material after all.. u get what I mean??? ... gd luck...
