~*~ Long distance relationships ~*~

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by signupmember, Apr 16, 2006.

  1. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    You always have that risk... even if ur dating the boy next door...people can always fall in and out of love... if a relationship is stable then i dont think it can happen easily...
     
  2. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    we've talked about that when we first decided to do this. i'm not dumb, i do realize that when the person is not around then feelings can go away. and if u see someone around all the time, feelings can develop. we've just promised each other that when that happens, we MUST tell each other. there really isn't anything i can do but trust him. arent all relationships a gamble? just hope each time u play a hand, thats the one that will pay off.
     
  3. SpareribsQ

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    -lol i thought we were talking really long distances. but 3.5 hours is still a long distance relationship.

    i was in a situation where the girl lived in hong kong and i live in NYC.
     
  4. Kher89

    Kher89 Well-Known Member

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    -lol the meaning of long distance is by places.3.5 hours o.o u r deeply in love.
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Hahaha thats why i was like...ermmmm long distance? people say 3.5 hours is long distance... but like ive said before... my cousin is married with a thai girl and that was like 14 hours....now thats real long distance
     
  6. edmundteh

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    trust, hmmm...another issue.
    u sure u can trust this guy.
    especialy when someone is in THE STATES.
     
  7. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    is a person more likely to cheat b/c they are in THE STATES? like i said, there really isn't anything else i can do but trust. stop trying to make me paranoid
     
  8. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    just preparing u for the worst.
    nothin to do wit states...can happen in any country.

    okay, can go back to your cloud 9.
     
  9. Boss Lady

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    I sent him my pictures, gifts, and called him every night & day! The phone bill had skyrocketed!!! My mom and I fighted over for this and told me to pay the phone bill! I got mad and moved out... Eventually, I had to stop calling him and he forgotten about me... I then forgot about him too...
     
  10. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    well.. there is.. keep the communication going!

    haha.. im pretty sure you will do find.. since you're the expert -lol
     
  11. Kher89

    Kher89 Well-Known Member

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    Communicate with msn.Or ur bf doesnt have a pc.Then juz break up.
     
  12. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    Yup.. had that... well due to bad experience.. I'm a bit bias now.. I will say long-distance..NEVER work out!

    But...My flatmate's having a long distance now.. n everything's working ok...SO FAR.. but I still do not see a future in it.. someone's bound to cheat... :p
     
  13. gilbeg

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    It wont work well. DOnt waste your time.
     
  14. Kher89

    Kher89 Well-Known Member

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    Different ppl diff way of thinking.
     
  15. Xx_Flora_xX

    Xx_Flora_xX Well-Known Member

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    had one b4, lasted for like half a yr then it jux ended. its reli diff to keep one esp when both are reli out-goin n stuffs. it takes loads of faith n trust in a long-d relationship! but if the foundation of the relationship is strong enuf, then it may works X x x ( jux like my frd who went out with diz guy for like 3 yrs n keepin a long-d for like another 3 yrs!)
     
  16. Xx_Flora_xX

    Xx_Flora_xX Well-Known Member

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    i guess ppl in uk are more likely to cheat as well. L
     
  17. AzFanaticx

    AzFanaticx Active Member

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    Long distance relationship sux. It so hard to get to see your other half.
     
  18. pianista

    pianista Active Member

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    long distance relationship usually dont work, but it is a chance to test each other's faith.
     
  19. kirinblazex

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    I had friends and cousins who had beed in long distance relationships, but sadly no one has ever pasted a month.
     
  20. chookie

    chookie Active Member

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    i've never have one. but theres a very big key to keep a long distance relationship: TRUST. since the two will be apart, and they dont have any ideas whats going on with each other, so they need to learn how to trust.