Long relationships

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by angelzhope, Nov 22, 2007.

  1. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    wow, 5 years now .. that sounds so sweet
    if i was one of your friends, i'd say that this relationship could last
    but i do know people who want to date other people before settling down, and i understand how they can be curious how it is to date other people
    but i don't think they realize that if they do, they can be losing the one person that is right for them
     
  2. daniel5007

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    eerr..depends..but ussually never work...coz i have a friends..they oredi be couple for about 8 years..but at the end break up..even my bro is like tat
     
  3. sho11

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    no it's a waste of time...wait till you're in your mid 20's
     
  4. xpandax

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    You should never care what other says because the relationship is between you guys. If you think he's your mister right then stay with him. Age should not play much of a role in a relationship..
     
  5. JackyXJai

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    wow 5 years...i can't stay with a gurl more than 5 days lols jks, well u can't really do anything about it...because you alrdy wasted 5 years with that guy, and u wanted to restart you can't you alrdy made ur choice there by stayin with him in the beginning u kno. But for myself i would't have long relationship in the early stages.
     
  6. rNb99

    rNb99 Well-Known Member

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    don't worry about what others say. trust is really important in a relationship so i think you should trust him and also your instinct.
     
  7. smallb

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    I don't think being in a long relationship is an issue.. Come on.. If u really love him.. What's the fuss about? And also if he really loves you.. Isn't that good? 5 years is considered really long already.. U can't actually find some one that click with u so easily outside you know.. U should appreciate what u have right now..
     
  8. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    5years is a long time.Appreciate it.Follow ur heart,dont listen to others...
     

  9. No it's NOT ok.. 5 years may seem long to other people.. but just think if you guys get married.. that's like 30/40++ years..

    I think you seem to already have doubts since you made this thread.. It's time to move on.. unless you think you'll marry this guy and be happy with him for all those years... which I think is unlikely...
     
  10. brown_bear

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    ^ Mebe She Made This Thread Out Of Curiosity...(sp?....ehh Whutever)

    I Dun See A Problem With Each It..as Long As You Both Still Love Each Other...
    Child-hood Sweet-hearts...CUTE...!!
     
  11. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    Wow.. 5 years. I think you two are very lucky to have found each other. :) Like other says, if he treats you right and you two are in love with each other, then he's definitely a keeper!

    Though, if you are seriously curious about dating other guys, maybe you should have a serious talk with him about it. Maybe he has been thinking the same thing? Trying it with other people might make you realize that he his the perfect person for you. But... still keep in mind that if you're seeing other people, he might as well... and maybe he will find someone he will have more interests in.... So, you really need to be sure about doing this and be aware of the risks. *nods*
     
  12. right so what neko is saying is that if you don't get sick of him.. he'll probably get sick of you..
     
  13. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    uhm No. Wanting to try with other people doesn't mean you're sick of being with the present person. <_< I was just saying maybe he has been wondering about the same thing as her. And I did say "maybe".
     
  14. emawlee28

    emawlee28 Well-Known Member

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    aww so cutee<3 5 yrs is long ^__^ keeep going and never giveee up ^---^
     
  15. wplchris

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    me and my bf has been dating for 9 years.. sometimes when i'm bored i would think of breaking off with him but finally i couldn't lie to myself anymore.. after being into a relationship for so long.. he has been a part of my life already.. so, if u ask me, being long in a relationship has its plus points.. at least both of u spent enough time to understand each other more.. anyway, he's no longer my bf now as we recently tied the knot.. -blush2
     
  16. right.. so maybe he's sick of you and wants to find someone else.. maybe..

    please leave us a comment 10 years down the road..
     
  17. xdly

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    since you 2 are still together... and there are no problems.... why listen to other's words? as long as you're happy with your relationship (even when it started when you were still young)... it may no problem at all
     
  18. will4eva7k

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    I know someone, a friend, who she has been going out with since she was 13 or 14, her first bf, and its been i think almost 6 years now and they are still together.

    That's what i would call impressive.
     
  19. and thats what I call dumb..
     
  20. kekeke... p l a y e r -tongue2