Only happens in the movies honey... Besides even if i talked to her, and drop the ball and say "Oh can i have ure msn or phone number" etc...that prob would be scary... I guess Australians are really anti-social...
Really? I've been to sydney for two weeks and the locals are VERY friendly and helpful too. -er I thought you said u alrdy asked for her number! If so.. askin for her MSN is like downscaling...
Ar....my dear....there is a diff between sydniers and us West Aussies. Here the ppl are more ruder...and anyone chattin to randoms on the street are a no no that is why im askin everyones help to break the ice..
^lol. My bad. I misread 'bus number' as 'phone number'... -emb I prolly shd take a nap. In that case, try body language first. Smile and if u get a positive respond, then move up to her and start chatting. Don't haf to ask her for any contact yet. Prolly do it again the week after.. and the next.. till u think it's OK for u to ask her MSN/email/phone number
What should i ask then? What happens if i meet her next time at the station? As well she has a sister...!! EEK!
I can't tell you exactly what to say unless you want some corny pick-up lines. But I can give u a tip. Just say sth sincere, natural and spontaneous. Walk up to her and say Hi (if she smiled at u) then say the first thing that pops into ur mind. Not "I like ur breasts" or any of that kind though Oh her sister... then you gotta be friendly to them both Actually that makes it easier for u to pretend everything's cool and u r just tryin to be frens instd of hitting on her right?
Why don't you give her your number instead and just tell her you're interested. Then you wouldn't be putting her in the awkward position of having to give out her personal information, and if she's interested she'll call. If not, move on.... It's worked great for me in the past...*shrugs*
O_O So this is how americans or aussie's do it. I'd be a tad suspiscious at guys who approach me for no reason. Gotta beware of potential risk of rapist/stalkers/cheaters/psycho. Hmmm... If you met her a few times then she's probably be familiar with you. Depending on response, go for it!
The idea is to do it in a public place with other people around so the woman doesn't feel threatened and alone. And if she wants to, she can walk away. Places to try: coffee shops book stores fitness centers libraries bars clubs I wouldn't do it when the woman is alone, she'd feel intimidated and threatened.
next time you say hey i saw you last couple of times are you going to work / school... if she talks to you then leave it at that next time you see her and say hi again and ask another thing etc
as long as you dress nice and with a decent clean face, she won't turn you down since she's already friendly. So, don't be scare and talk to her next time you see her! good luck!!
Girls have a 6th sense for nervousness, so when the moment you try something "corny" or when you force yourself to say something. It'll signal a hundred alarms in their head. Planning is good. Don't do the "just be yourself thing" because you're obviously too shy to really do that. DO NOT plan out lines though (like that pen comment you made), plan out a direction for a natural conversation, this allows you to flow with the conversation more and not seem like you have some other motive. Don't mistake her "friendly" response to mean she's an easier target. Most women are nice at first because they try to be nice to everyone. One of the best lines shy guys can use is "Hi". Tell her you think she's beautiful and that you want to chat and get to know her a bit (It's so simple, but that's exactly why it works). Just talk about whatever (bus routes, etc), make some jokes out of her responses if it's naturally to you. Think about having a good conversation, not about tricking her into giving you her number. Keep the conversation short, if it's too long, then you'll end up showing the boring side to yourself (because you've run out of things to say). If you've had a good conversation, ask for her email or phone number as you are ending your conversation.
After you get a few sentences in, be a gentlemen and apologize straight away for not introducing yourself. Give her your name etc then ask her name. Ask her what does does, tell her what you normally like to do... anything at all. There's no rules except be nice as long as she keeps responding then its a good sign, the more comfortable she feels the better. As long as you don't sound suspicious or sound like your trying too hard. You said you've approached her several times already, what did you do in those several times? thats a very good opportunity already. Don't just come out with 'can I have your number?'. Don't think about it too much just think that this is a new friend you have just met and you both get along. As for her number, present it this way, before you are about to leave get it off her then and say 'hey if your not doing much this weekend want to go catch a movie? or...... Find out what she likes doing and then say something like 'we should do that together sometime. Then pullout your phone and ask 'whats your number I'll give you a call sometime'. Dont give up! Ganbatte, otagai ganbarimasuyou!
^Maybe i need to see her more often in public so she can get a feel of me that i catch the bus with her. So far thanks for your tips guys Kenshi, Domo arigato gozaimasu! XD
