Miss my ex. do u?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by iiimj4everiii, Jul 28, 2009.

  1. zxorated

    zxorated Active Member

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    part of the list...... hahaha

    Style of your hair,
    shape of your eyes and your nose,
    the way you stare
    As if you see, right through to my soul,

    It's your left hand and the way
    that it's not quite as big as your right,
    the way you stand in the mirror
    before we go out at night,

    Our quiet time,
    your beautiful mind,

    They're a part of the list.
    Things that I miss.
    Things like your funny little laugh,
    the way you smile or the way we kiss.

    What I noticed is this:
    I come up with
    something new, every single time
    that I sit and reminisce.

    The way you sweet smell
    lingers when you leave a room,
    (you leave a room)
    Stories you tell as we lay
    in bed all afternoon.
    (all afternoon)

    I dreamed you now every night
    in my mind is where we meet.
    (my mind is where we meet)
    and when I'm awake
    staring at pictures of you asleep.

    Touching your face,
    invading you space.

    They're a part of the list.
    Things that I miss.
    Things like your funny little laugh,
    the way you smile or the way we kiss.

    What I noticed is this:
    I come up with
    something new, every single time
    that I sit and reminisce.

    Oooh, and you'll live in my memories forever more I swear.
    And you'll live in my memories forever more I swear.

    They're a part of the list.
    Things that I miss.
    Things like your funny little laugh,
    the way you smile, or the way we kiss.

    What I noticed is this:
    I come up with
    something new, every single time
    that I sit and reminisce.
    -tongue2
     
  2. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    ya i do like staring at her sleeping xDDD.
     
  3. Tony

    Tony Well-Known Member

    And the follow up, we Fade into the background

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    She looks so good in that white dress
    At the far end of the aisle
    Standing where I should be standing
    Some other man on his face there's a smile

    I just walked in sat down silent
    I stood outside for awhile
    Wondering why did I come here
    Face it you messed up and now she's with somebody else

    And now all I can do is smile
    And fade into the background
    I'll say congratulations and I'll fade into the background

    Such a lovely reception
    I sit here sipping Rosé
    Then we catch eyes for a second
    Both of us smile then quickly look away
    It's funny you don't know what you got
    Till you ain't got it no more
    Put down my glass grab the bottle
    I throw it back and I shout she with somebody else

    And now all I can do is smile
    And fade into the background
    I'll say congratulations and I'll fade into the background

    Fade right into the background

    She's with somebody else
    And now all I can do is smile
    And fade into the background
    I'll say congratulations and I'll fade into the background
     
  4. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    How old are you?
    Please tell me your not in your avy? lOl -sweat





    I think any person that has been in a serious relationship, and feel these things have experienced a relationship w/ earnest heart. Yet, there are those that 'think' they've experienced it, but haven't actually. People that say otherwise are full of sh8t.

    Like they say, it takes a LIFETIME to forget someone. Because you can't ever forget who and what you are in the past. You just have to find a will, and move forward, but never can a person forget memories, be it good or bad.

    I agree about missing a close friend, or 'ex'. There's a lot of deep things you share, when your in those relationships. And you dont' expect yourself to consistantly share these deep thoughts or talks w/ everyone you meet, that's why it's tough.

    Just like marriage. You don't marry to marry again later on, you do it once. So be careful before going in too deep.
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^lol...my age matters in that post? :p im old la... dw... btw... i agree... when i was 18 n dating my ex bf... i thought i loved him n all that... but now... im wondering.... did i really? cuz it wasnt really the type of love id make sacrifices for.... funny how we think we know it all when we are young... but end up realizing that u thought u knew sometimes...
    n i will probably think the same thing abt myself a few years later

    n no....thats not me... im not caucasian lol....
     
  6. ^ Thats why i don't say 'Love'
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^lol... yeah... i onle said it to one person =X.... but yea... looking back im thinkin....hmmmm not too sure... but oh well... thats how i felt at that time... as if it was all that >_<
    oh well... we learn from those kinda things.. havent told anyone since that.... so ive learned my lesson
     
  8. fallenfeather

    fallenfeather Member

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    yea i do, broke up for 10 yrs and i cant get over it still T_T
     
  9. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    It kind of matters.

    Because 18, and mid 20s are different things. A lot of these lovey dovey is just puppy love, especially when people are still going through puberty.

    maters_g,

    I kind of relate to that. Words are just words, but for some girls, it means something. But I can assure you, and we all know that, by action, we portray who we are. I dont' think I've ever use that word towards my mom, or anyone else, in that way, because it's become a cliche, an over used expression.

    Miss Cheeks, you seem very uplifted and optimistic on your own part. What's your take? I'm sure you don't go into future relationships w/ the same out look as you had before.
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ lol im 23 so kinda old compared to most ppl ard here >_<

    im optimistic n uplifted but also realistic la... its not all fun n nice anymore n yea... every relationship is different, once one has had different experiences ur view on things changes...but in general... staying optimistic... just noticed that girls from my age become more aware of what they want
     
  11. twfidgit

    twfidgit Member

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    I try not to, but i really miss her
     
  12. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    No. I would say that all of my relationships were "puppy love." I don't think I truly loved someone. I can't imagine dying without knowing how real love actually feels. It's so hard to find the one.

    But apparently, most people search for their exes years after their breakup just to see how they're doing (e.g. internet). I heard that on the radio a long time ago.
     
  13. no i don't... it was a nightmare... i try to forget everything that has ever happened between us and love my current with everything i have (if i have a current)
     
  14. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    holy crap... 10 years and still going >.<
     
  15. cupofmilk

    cupofmilk Member

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    wow 10 years... and i thought i was bad with 5 under my belt.

    missing the first ex-gf... but have moved on with my life with other gfs.

    probably jsut because it was puppy love and wasnt jaded yet by all the other crap gfs make you go thru.
     
  16. babydollyyy

    babydollyyy New Member

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    it just became a part of me that his face pops up somewhere sometime everyday.
     
  17. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    completely agree. but its not everyday now. just once in a while.
     
  18. danxstry

    danxstry Member

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    every single day ; ;
     
  19. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    its like i've became dull empty sea with no big fish swimming around....
     
  20. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    Here are my deeper level feelings and something similar I am experiencing. A lot of people that can forget easily, or dismiss their memories probably did not endure enough to create a lasting footprint in their hearts.

    People like to pretend they have moved on, but they can never forget what they've been through. Yes, if you were with someone for less than 1 year, you probably won't have much. But for those in serious relationships ranging from 3-5 years, it's pretty deep. It's something you'll probably never forget.

    To me, I don't think things will ever be the same. It is devastating, and it will linger forever. You just need to talk it out, and ease yourself out.

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    Me personally, I miss 'her' a bit because I haven't ever gone deep like I have w/ anyone else before. NEVER. There are some things you can never share w/ a guy friend, nor can you share w/ a typical 'girl'. The roads you've walked together, will always just be just for you two, despite any ending result. You know how I felt and still feel (at times)? I feel totally betrayed, used, and most of all, I feel as if the trust has broken so bad, it has left an unrecoverable crack.

    But it has kind of forced me to become resilient in other aspects, yet in terms of the 'relationship' sector, it's damaged. I don't plan on mending it and it might be better to just leave that wound hurt.