everthought the way around? most girls got controled by mother without knowing it.. think about it yourself
I think I listen to my mom alot, but when it comes to gf stuff, its a different story. I get what I want, and how I want it to be.
being a mama's boy is no problem. it's the extent of the relationship that matters: -he has to be a little independent (at least) -his mother doesn't have control over his finances...haha (which means he doesn't have to ask mommy for money - especially if he's already an adult) -his girlfriend comes first in at least 60% of situations -his mama doesn't hate his girlfriend's guts -his mama doesn't "choose" or have to "approve" his girlfriends before he dates them -he gives his girlfriend more SUGAR his mom doesn't: -bathe him -feed him -wipe his buggie/drool -watch him change/change him -shock
it's classic - do you safe your mom or uyour gf if they both fall in the river ? Save mom - because u can only have 1 mom Gf - you can have plenty
Neither, because a person should know how to swim. Serious, I answered that when they were playing those "psychology games" - who will you save if such and such, what will you do if such and such etc. Plus, I know plenty of guys who can't swim well enough to lifeguard... So no, hopefully the situation will never come true, otherwise, both the Moms and the Girlfriends' lives are in deep peril.
what if it wasn't a gf what if it was your wife, your true love, the one you want to spend your eternaity with?
My hypothetical daughter on principal, without a doubt (except that she may not exist afterall). Because, I know my husband are bound to die around my time, but if all went well I shouldn't have to witness the death of my "daughter". Plus, my daughter will be a living link to my dead husband, while any hypothetical children I may have after a dead daughter will only be a terrible substitute. Consider, English gave a name to a person with a dead husband and wife, "widow/widower", a child with no parents "orphan" but they cannot find a name for the parent who lost their child, because the pain of losing a child is beyond words' description.
its mostly like this...if u have to save some1 u love...u would mostly save the younger one...who IS the future
yeah, i agree with you guys who is the future? in both cases your parents or your grandparents (it would be your parents) your parents or your husband/wife (the husband/wife) your husband/wife or your children (your children)
Good point. I would save my parents, my parents and my (hypothetical) child. Because it is in the blood, I know for a fact my parents will save me instead of their other half without second thought. I will be no different. Plus, I can never be certain that my husband will always be my husband (yes, I am pragmatic like that), but my parents and (hypothetical) child will always be linked by our blood/gene.
the only thing that is bad baout a mommas boy is that if the parnets don't like the girl, they arn't gonna be together. other than date, there is nothing wrong of being a momma's boy. right off the bat, u know they respect the elders and are also caring. what girl wouldn't liketo see that in a guy? lol
i dun see anythign wrong w that.. heh i found it cute cuz mama boy are more romantic and more gentlement then anyone else
There is sumthing wrong with a momma's boy....even though he APPRECIATES and TREATS he's mom...respectfully...but its like if his mom his taking control of most of the aspects of his life...like who he should like..and hangout...that means he has no brains...that means..he is still a baby...
I'm not sure if you would call me a mama's boy but I love her and I am her flesh and blood. she did go through a lot of pain in giving birth to me I make my own decisions although I take everything she says into consideration. I would run to my mother if she needed help and I would listen to her in most cases but I don't run to her in a sense that I am dependent or clingy oh why do girls try to compete with a guys mother or try to be priority over the guys friends? its not even in the same category :S
lol I was on msn today and came across this article, seeing how this thread is up, just wanted to share it : 1. The momma’s boy. I wasn’t put off by the fact that he was almost 30 and lived at home until the day he asked me to pick him up for a romantic date that would start at the movies. When I arrived in my Saturday night best, he was sitting in the kitchen talking to his mother. “Have a seat,” he said. “I figured we’ll skip the movie and hang out here with my Mom.” A version of this happened no less than eight times in one month. She was a nice enough lady, sure, but she seemed to creep up into everything we did, making it hard to get to know him as an individual. The clincher: As we were making out alone (finally) in his basement apartment, he heard his mother’s footsteps upstairs and called out, “Mom, come down here and tell us about the party!” I was still buttoning up my top as she settled in with us for the rest of the night. I’m surprised I stuck around as long as I did. I wasn’t used to hangin’ out with a mom. I’m the girl who answers my mother’s questions about my life with one-syllable sentences. (“Fine. Good. Fun.”) But after spending so much time with his mother, I realized, well gosh, if I’m going to hang out with a mom, I’d rather it be my own mom. -rotfl (The pro to having a momma's boy..) Why I’m glad I dated him: As exasperating as his mother’s presence turned out to be, the light in his eyes when he talked to her was heartwarming. Sure, she’s probably doomed to play the role of the monster-in-law to her son’s future wife, but after dating a few bitter sons since, I learned it’s better to be with a man who loves the most important woman in his life rather than hates her, right? And after dating him for three months, I actually started hangin’ out with my own mom and opening up to her more—and she still has no idea she has this stranger to thank. 5 guys you’ve got to date By Amy Spencer
hrmm..i guess..it depends on the guy and the mother...like the guy i kno...he is the sweetest thing..he would give up like everything for hims mom...and it just pisses me off...but then idk...i just think its up to the mother if she's open or strict...and that will define if being a momma's boy is good or bad..
