My boyfriend's going to a lap dance club

tell him you want a male stripper for your party :teeth_smile:

 

Give him a better lap dance.

 

if u can do lap dances on him, he wouldn't go pay $50+ on a dance on him...
but whats wrong with lap dances? they arent going to give a hand job on him anyways

 

so whats the outcome?

 

Hmmm.. honestly dont see a big deal in this if u trust ur bf, dont think id mind my bf gettin just a lapdance on his bachelor's... but thats if its only a lapdance tho...

if hes there every week then u have a problem... but its just a meaningless tradition...let him have his fun too....!

 

hehehe *waves*

 

I think if you take it in a lighter way it would sound a lot more reasonable. Your about to make a life commitment to another person, it's just a bit of fun before you get married, because your expecting to spend the rest of your life with this person. It's not like your cheating on your partner though the word is somewhat objective and some people would classify it as cheating.

However take a step back, life is short, what is wrong with having a bit of fun before you jump into a life commitment?

And as much as marriages end up in breakups due to cheating, I'd probably say there are as much break ups due to partners being uptight/unreasonable, so much so that them may feel anything they do is scrutinised..just imagine the typical who that chick/guy your talking to scenarios and others alike.

But as for the OP's scenario, he either has no respect for you OR maybe you don't give him enough space and he has gotten to the point where is kinda whatever about it.

 

Here's a phrase for you:
"It doesn't matter where he gets the appetite, as long as he eats at home".

 

So True. Like I always tell Mrs. Ralph, "...the day I stop looking is when you're going to have a problem."

dancey1

 

what? is that too cheap or expensive?

 

Heey guys i appreciate all your advices! At the end he just said "it was shit, all the women were pork chops. Besides 2 they were orite like" Hahaha maybe i thought too much? But isnt it normal to ? Anyways Yeahh thankss for everything xx

 

I'm there to keep an eye on you; besides those dollar bills into G-strings are helping to keep the American economy going; we all have to do our part! :laugh:

And you actually believe him? LOL... -bowroflarms

 

LMAO.. that just means he's seen better at the higher end clubs he go to..

 

Seems like its all blokes comments on here, this from a girls point of view. By the way you are saying that you 'don't mind him going but you don't trust the lapdancers' means that you don't trust your boyfriend. Fair enough every girls have their in securities but every girl genuinely don't mind their boyfriends going to those clubs be ause they trust them.

If my bf were to say that he's going to one i don't care coz i know he won't cheat. Its all in the game for blokes to pay those lapdancers and that they can watch but not touch. That's why i feel comfortable.

At the end of the day you say in the lines of i don't you going but i don't trust you so you shouldn't go and i'm not letting you to have a life. Now that controlling attitude won't get you anywhere my love!

 

you need to go to a male strip club and see how he reacts

 

hmm well he should pay big bucks to have a good night but stay with in his limits. most girls would be like awwwww hellllllzzzzzz naaaahhh niagga