but i think its pretty messed up to pay for a lap dance when you have a girlfriend already own girlfriend isnt satisfying enought ? and why pay ? when you can go to any club with bunch of friends and dance with a lady cock blocker
hmm...... maybe you should just go with him and learn how to dance, so next time he can stay home for a lap dance.
There is a saying in chinese "It doesn't matter where they go as long as they know how to get home". Your boyfriend are just going to a lap dance, not a big deal.
I've been to strip clubs with the guys plenty of times. I've been to strip clubs with friends a couple of times. I've also been to the strip club with my girlfriend and friends a couple times as well. Hell, I've been to the strip club in MA and FL with Akki a couple times. At the end it just comes down to trust. Just like how I trust her going to the club with her friends or going for a couple drinks with the classmates. But if your boyfriend doesn't have the decency to consider your feelings; time to let it go.
it sounds like he went to a cheap strip club. which is really disgusting. who knows how many diseases these stripper have. if he got a lap dance from a pork chop than i feel sorry for him. must desperately want to wash his clothes and take a long shower.
Girl needs their space and a guy needs theirs give some breathing room if you respect his space he will respect yours. In a realtionship its all about trust. If you can't trust a guy then why be with him? same thing goes for girls if you can't trust the girl why be with them?
maybe he has to go for his friend's stag night you know show face? if he does want a dance that doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. have some faith in yourself. don't think too much.
guys need face like jenny2212 said. "Bro before the hoes" if all his friends are going to the lap dance and if he can't go because of you. Then he wouldn't have any face. You know it is a guys thing that they need respect from their friends. Atleast you bf honest said he going to lap dance. Would you like your bf to lie where he going? or tell you the truth? It is your choice, but then you are the one that going to suffer it all up if you take it so seriously.
I think most of the replies here have been from guys trying to convince you that you should find a way to be comfortable with him going for a lap dance. The lapdance itself is no big deal and having been to some, I'll tell you that the typical strip clubs are pretty boring with ugly girls. If you want a strip club or a lapdance, go to Vegas. What I thought was wrong about this whole thing are the things he said. He wasn't in front of his buddies so it's not like he was trying to save face, he didn't need to be a D-bag. And I completely disagree with the whole "as long at he eats at home" deal unless both the man and the woman felt that way. What kind of respect are you showing your girl with talk like that? He cares about face, what about her? Her bf wants to go out for a show elsewhere. So.. is his gf not good enough? Is she not satisfying him? What if she were to go and cuddle with some hot man or spent the night? I'm sure he wouldn't so much like that. Guys only seem to think about their own face value sometimes. On the other hand - if you guys aren't even at a serious stage in your relationship then whatever. He'll want to go have fun and you should go/want your own fun. They'll know it's not much out there but a cheap dance from often times ugly girls. Otherwise, if the relationship has matured then something else must be missing for him to want that sex appeal elsewhere. Something for you to think about perhaps...
Girlfriend will be mad if your boyfriend goes to a gentlemen club and get a lap dance by other women. Your girl friend will be jealous.
