MY LIFE SUCKS BIG TIME! Please help me....

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Tao_lung, Jun 7, 2006.

  1. OSJ

    OSJ Well-Known Member

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    from how im seeing it, your onli seeing what you wanna see . the first time, yu wanted to test her, and she went with another man.she failed lolz. this time, its even worst.
     
  2. kenji3819

    kenji3819 Active Member

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    now wat??
     
  3. titi

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    sounds like ur gf doesn't know what she wants...she's probably all confused and seriously needs to go see a shrink...if she doesn't have any mental problems and is perfectly healthy...then she is a playa...wants it all...but u can't always have it all...

    and for u........it's hard to let go of someone......it is....but times like this...u gotta do wut u gotta do...do u want to always put urself on the line...and be stressed about it all the time? i'm sure u are probably tired of all this....it's time to move on....or at least for the time being...u should loose all connections with her............more u talk to her...more harder it will be.....

    if u guyz were really meant to be...maybe one day ur paths will cross again...but right now....no, u have to move on......it's not a healthy relationship

    go listen to james blunt "you are beautiful"
     
  4. ahhamah

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    I still can't get over it...TRICKED?!?! ahahahha..sorry man..I know you're pretty frustrated. At this point I think you should just move on cause I don't think you'll ever completely forget or forgive.
     
  5. rideondiss

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    Dude let me tell you the words wisdom.

    1. There's no TRICKED when you going horny. She did it because she _ _ _ _ _ .? fill in the blank.
    2. She a horny g/f. You got to have sex with her at least 3 time a day.
    3. After sex. Let her go out with her so call best friend.
    4. Let her go slowly but still have sex with her..Do this until you find a better g/f.
     
  6. lol i liked that part how you said she is a playa... -lol
     
  7. josie_164cj

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    i guess give it some time, you will get over it eventually, dont harm urself, u dont deserve that pain!
     
  8. josie_164cj

    josie_164cj Member

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    also, she doesnt deserve you
     
  9. HK! Fish

    HK! Fish Well-Known Member

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    having sex once with other ppl is enough, but twice?!?!
    I think she lied to you that she was tricked. cuz accident never occurs twice in a relationship with the same person. unless he forces her to do it.
    but even though he forces her or not, she should of said something instead of 'it was a trick'.
    if it's a trick and she knows it, why would she still be friend with that older guy? And besides, if something like that happens, why would she told you about it and still hangs out with him?
    she must be cheating on you!

    i think your girl is up to no good, one thing is, you have to dump her before she cheats on you even more and worse!
     
  10. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    LMFAO!! Tricked into doing it!? Zomg he needs to be teaching a class somewhere.

    Dude honestly though you need to think about how much self respect you have. Are you gonna let a girl screw you over like THAT(Twice you said?!?) and still take her back? No no no.. If you don't respect for urself don't expect anyone else to.
     
  11. ipepsi

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    can't be an accident..she wanted it and if you beleive her man good luck being the 3rd wheel...
     
  12. loO4la

    loO4la Well-Known Member

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    wow I totally agree! I honestly cannot believe that after all she's put you through, you are still considering forgiving her. Seriously, I don't know whether I should praise you for your generousity or pity you for it. Like "shy" said, all your girlfriend's trying to do is manipulate you into thinking that she's the victim. You really think she regrets cheating on you? Because I really doubt it. If she truly loved you, she wouldn't have gone out and cheated on you.

    This relationship is messed up from the start. Tears are a girl's best friend and the best weapon against the guys beause they will believe their girl in a heart beat when they cry. Don't fall into this! She's playing with your mind, and if she was tricked, shouldn't she be pissed off at her exboyfriend then? Which clearly it isn't the case. I think she still feels attached to him, and she doesn't want to lose that feeling. She also doesn't want to lose you because obviously you're good to her, but the other jerk isn't. I'm guessing he was the one who broke it off with her? So she wants to use you as her comforter. Run to you whenever the jerk treats her bad. She is using you, playing with your heart, using you as a rebound.

    I don't want to call her a slut because I know I would get kicked and yelled at, and I'm in no position to, but her actions speaks for itself. I feel bad for you.
     
  13. Quit! playin' games with my heart... my heart.. -whistle

    -rotfl -lol... yo that was a hit back then -lol
     
  14. jtang

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    before you punch the wall, calm the fuq down first.

    1. you're a man, composure is key. emotions will run high cuz of your girl
    2. think of it this way, these days, a lot of kids are sexually active (damn myspace). you're less than likely to be her "first."
    3. if you keep being so damn emotional, its going to hurt your relationship.
    4. go get some head from her. u're young. u still have a billion girls to mess around with
    5. how the fuq did she get "tricked" into giving head? did the guy say it tastes like strawberry or som shit?

    bottom line - keep your composure, you're the guy of the relationship, not the girl.
     
  15. babyfiona

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    think u better a a new gf..eventhought she is honest with u, but she aint honest 100%. No way i am going to give a blow job on accident! i will do it when i wanted to....-tongue2

    tricked? like..oh..i am tricked..but still continue to blow the guy thing? -.-".