My situation here

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mingming2006, Jun 26, 2009.

  1. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    ^ *sigh* do not 吃回頭草
    if you don't understand.. don't take back your ex..
    also i think you like her because you know that she is free and you think that you were jealous when she was taken before she was broken up
     
  2. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    but then you'll be her rebound.....give her a lil time first...cos she might not want to go straight into a relationship after just bein in another..
     
  3. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    i din knw she got into another relationship after i fell out with her, tbh - only after eavesdropping when she was talkin - after comin down to london - and i was like washin my cup..idk - i want to make amends but ill def give her time and do some things - even if small, to show that i care for her which shd differentiate me from her other friends..bt i aint gna play the big-bro type..
    i need to show her that ive matured from the breakup and deserve another chance..no matter hw long it takes
     
    #23 mingming2006, Jun 30, 2009
    Last edited: Jul 1, 2009
  4. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    ^ Well if you have the heart to do it no one will stop you but i warn you if she won't take you back or the fact it all ends badly, you gotta take it and move on forward
    not trying to say it won't work out but it's just some people ets into this and can;t get themselves back out of the relationship and can never move on forward
     
  5. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    i been in this situation before...except i broke up for wrong reasons not cause of other temptations...

    but point is...maybe u want her back cause u saw the relationship u had in the past and want it, but even though u guys still chatted even after breaking up, she still could have chhanged, and at the end of the day, the break up will leave a scar there which may become a liability in the relationship at some point or whatever...

    but...u got to think of not only your feelings towards her, but u got to analyse or find out does she still love u back?

    good luck

    x
     
  6. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    yea i get ur point there - i need to make sure the same mistake doesnt occur agen, or its def over for me - like completely..
    maybe she stil knda has some feelings for me - stil - but idk, i have to be careful this time
     
  7. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    well i guess best way is to hang out with her to see if she still has feelings for u and also to see if u rele do love her.
     
  8. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    haha bbes, yea, ill leave to time for that =).. ill be seein her a lot more when shes dwn in london this sept for uni, where i shd be able to see her a lot more often - like for lunch or dinner