hardly any asian girls where i am, apparently they all live on the other side of the state line. and the 1s i do meet think they are 2 good 4 me. ended up marring a white girl whom has the same traditional chinese family value as i do. couldn't get any better than this!
I have personally dated whites and blacks. And i did go back to an asian after all that. But the experience has left me looking elsewhere. Maybe I just found a really immature asian. I do have lots of crushes on asian guys. They just don't have enough courage. Those that do are too cocky about it.
A lot of my asian girl friends are dating white guys, and they're still the same as before they started dating white guys. I really think that how a person acts has a lot to do with his/her surroundings. So maybe the white guys that these asian girls date make these asian girls feel very princess like which makes them think they're better than the asian guys they've dated in the past...it could all be psychological ...who knows. Although I don't discriminate when it comes to dating, I'm not a BIG fan of interracial dating either. Even though asians are quickly adapting to the western culture, there's still some sort of cultural gap that other races just won't understand. I was born and raised in the US. and I have to say that my family is a pretty traditional chinese/vietnamese family. & even though I grew up in a westernized society and went through a 'westernized' education, sometimes, when I talk to white, black, hispanic ect. people, they just don't understand where I'm coming from. I guess it all really depends on the individuals in a relationship & how much they understand each other's cultures... but no matter how interested one is, if they don't have the first hand experience, there will still be some sort of gap in there. As for me, I don't tend to date a lot of white guys because I always wonder if they like me for me or if they like me simply because I'm asian. There are lots of guys out there who have asian fetishes, and I've met one too many already...so, I tend to shy away from non-asian guys as dating prospects. & maybe I'm looking into it too far, but if the interracial dating leads to marriage and child-birth, then the child is going to have a major identity crisis because s/he won't know which culture to adapt to. As a chinese/vietnamese person born & raised in the US, I already have enough of an identity crisis. When I was in taiwan, nobody saw me as chinese..they all see me as american. When I'm in the US, nobody thinks that I'm american. So, there is no 1 culture in which I belong...
lol everytime I glance at the title of the post, I think of the backstreet boys or somethin... I can image some asian guy goin 'Tell Me Why, Ain't nothin' but a heartache' -lol.
This one's for you bro. http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1145518155652084602&q=two+chinese+boys
yea i stumbled onto that video after I made my post... but there are like so many other pple performin that song.
I hate Asian girls who date white guys. I think one of the reasons is that they wanna feel more superior or something. Some girls just go for anyone who is white.
Asian guys are smaller, uglier, nerdier, and with China's one child(son) rule, they are a dime a dozen!
