Ok guys, so first I just want to say that I did well on my Macro final... probably aced it haha, yeah I'm happy about that. We left the auditorium together because we sat somewhat close to each other (they professor and the TAs made us all sit two seats apart from each other) and we were just talking about the final and everything, you know discussing questions on the exam and stuff. So I asked her if she wanted to get lunch, it happened like this: Her: "Yeah, so what did you put for the one about the GDP blah blah blah" Me: "I don't remember, yeah, but, whatever, you want to get some lunch? I'm pretty hungry right now." Her: "Yeah, sure, you want to go to John Jay or somewhere else?" Me: "Yeah, let's just go to John Jay." So we walked to John Jay together, and I thought we were going to be alone (haha, damn, I think way too ahead) but her friends saw her on campus and they just tagged along. So, even though we weren't "alone" I mean, it was cool meeting her friends, and at the dining hall, my friends came over as well, so at least I got to know her a little bit more, and I got to know her friends, and she got to know mine. Well, after that lunch, I told her I was going to go to the city to do some walking around, and I asked her what she was going to do, and she said she wanted to go back to her dorm to sleep, so she gave me a hug (OMG!! felt so warm...) and she left. I think it's progress... but damn... what is my next step? Lunch was good, but we weren't really alone, so I mean, hanging out with friends was cool, but I just wanted it to be the two of us.
I think the first thing you need to do is equipt yourself psychologically first. The reason i think you are shy in front of her is because you are afraid what she might think of you if you acted too much. So you should throw away these thoughts and talk to her normally not being shy because you are not doing anything wrong. After you get over the psychological part of being shy towards her, maybe you can try to get her number or something and start smsing and then slowly develope from there.. Like going for lunch and stuff like that after class
I agree with Soda pop, hehe. Since you KNOW HER now, theres no point in being shy now. She knows how you are, and your comforatble being around her, you shouldnt be shy no more. Grreeet progresss!!!!!
This really has a Densha Otoko feel to it Congrats on making progress -chef CHARGE!!! for the happy tomorrow
