Old friend, new love?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by koogepanini, Sep 11, 2007.

  1. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i think its possible, even tho i fell in love with my friend (now my my bf) just after 3 years...we've been together offically for nearly 2 years now,still going strong even tho we've known each other for 5 yearsish...but yeh back to OP i think when it comes to love, anything is possible...
     
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  2. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    hm... isn't love all about your feelings for your friend?? I mean, no matter how long you know her/him, if you got feeling for her/him, then you can fall in love, if you ain't got the love feeling for each other, but more like a very good friendship feeling, then there will be no result?
     
  3. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    yeh i agree...but then in them books and films, its like ' oh my gosh, i've just realised i love you after so and so years??' if u kno what i mean?
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    well...what isnt there yet...can always come...
    i mean...feelings change all the time....just because u see someone doesnt mean it cant change...
    im not saying its certain that it changes....but its a fact that it can....
     
  5. AbZoNyX

    AbZoNyX Well-Known Member

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    So true!-worship You know a one night stand is alot more hot than a night with a person you knew for 10 years or so.. lol..
     
  6. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    hmm... well what i think is that it could happen but the relationship won't last as long as someone you probably have known for like 1-3 years
     
  7. Simonly

    Simonly Well-Known Member

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    I see this happen many times in dramas o.o
    but it can happen
     
  8. dahhhh~~~ ppl always associate the things i said with one night stand >_<
     
  9. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    exactly. If you know that person for a long time, your feeling towards her/him might be different than like 10 years ago, you might develop the 'love' feeling for her after 10 years. Or your feelings doesn't change at all after 10 years which makes it impossible to fall in love.

    well, I think that one night stand is like more for the fun and pleasure you get from it rather than loving each other
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Errr...yeahhhh....but the Q was...is it possible...
    my answer to that is yessss
    -cool
     
  11. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    so is my answer :)
     
  12. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    but thoughts could change....
    the most working relations are the ones built by friends :)
     
  13. The_Jelly

    The_Jelly NSFW? :P

    Im kinda in a situation like that too, but I still find it a bit ackward...she's like my sister...
     
  14. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    It'll pass after a while this awkwardness :)
     
  15. Kaitou_Kid

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    it def can happen! me and a old bf of mine had been friends for like 4 yrs (not exactly 8-10 but long enough!!!) its very awkward at 1st! but if you really like each other, time will overcome all!