Once a lier always a lier

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by koizuki, Aug 24, 2008.

  1. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    ^ meh i should serriously read the dictionary a lot more lol
     
  2. heartillygrl

    heartillygrl Member

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    everyone lies..does it matter?
     
  3. madison

    madison Well-Known Member

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    ig uess it depends on who the person is ... becasue some people may change and some .. will just remain the same
     
  4. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    OK question to you...
    have you ever lied?
    surely you have...
    so are you a liar then??
     
  5. deeesa

    deeesa Member

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    we all lie, whoever says they never lied in their whole life; that's a lie itself already. it always depends on the situations and what we lie about . . for couples, i don't see lying is an option because they're supposed to be open and honest with each other
     
  6. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    I still think there are scenarios in which it is okay for a guy to lie to his significant other. I used to do it all the time.

    How would you handle these scenarios without 1)lying and 2)pissing her off.

    Scenario one:
    (Significant other works hard to prepare a meal, you taste it and it's horrible)
    Her: "Well? What do you think?"

    Scenario two:
    (Significant other has been putting on the pounds lately and tries on a new dress)
    Her: "Does this make me look fat?"
     
  7. distrikt

    distrikt Active Member

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    i guess...ppl can change after realizing they made a mistake
     
  8. dannyjai

    dannyjai Member

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    it depends on situation if the lie was meant for good intentions and theres like follow up questions i guess the lie has to continue

    but i dont agree with once a liar always a liar
    people make mistakes no? forgive and forget ;]
     
  9. the_laughing_man

    the_laughing_man Well-Known Member

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    No I don't beleive this at all as people can change if they want to. But it does depend what they lie about. If they lie about themselves to make themselves sound better it's probably an inferiority complex associated with social anxiety that started as a habit and turned to an impulse. It just needs to be nurtured and catered for as long as the person knows they are doing it and realised after. It's a matter of filtering what they say.

    If they lie about where they have been or what they have been doing this can be cause for real concern and you just need to express how you feel and help that person to be honest.
     
  10. erict1628

    erict1628 Member

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    It depends on what kind of liar. If you tell little white lies to keep your significant other (specifically gf or wife) happy, then I don't think you're not always a liar.
     
  11. dominoes

    dominoes Member

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    Everyone lies so its kinda true. Then if its about lying a whole lot, then no . People won't stay liars forever and honest people may not be honest forever
     
  12. pakchichai

    pakchichai Member

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    that's mean lier around the world
     
  13. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    it's not kinda tru that everyone lies... it's true that everyone lies, whether we have changed from being a kid who lies a lot and become an honest person when older still meant that you have lied.. just depends how compulsive your lies are..:sp_ike_d: